ʻO kahi kokoke i kahi'ē aʻe, nā kaikamahine e like me ka wā e hāʻawi ai nā kānaka koʻikoʻi iā lākou e hoʻolohe iā lākou, a ma waho aʻe o kēia mau mea e hāʻawi a mahalo i nā mahalo. A he mea maopopo loa kēia, no ka mea, he mea hiki i kekahi wahine i hala i keʻano o ka naʻau ke haʻi pololei a haʻi pololei iā ia i kāna makemake e lohe iā ia. ʻOiai,ʻoiaʻiʻo, i loko o ka hapanui o kēia mau hihia, aneane e loaʻa mau ana i kekahiʻano kūlanaʻikeʻole, a me kaʻikeʻole. A he aha ka makemake o nā kāne e lohe ai i nā wāhine?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, mai ka wā lōʻihi aku nei, uaʻikeʻia kekahiʻano hilinaʻi inā inā aloha nā wāhine a pau i ko lākou mau pepeiao,ʻo ia paha keʻano o ka hele i ka naʻau o kā lākou kāne i loko o kona waha o ka'ōpū. ʻOiai paha kēia, a paha paha pēlā, akā i kekahi manawa e makemake ana ko kāua mau kāne, e like me nā kaikamāhine e lohe ai i kekahi mahalo mai kā lākou wahine aloha. ʻOiai he mea maopopo keʻano ma keʻano, ua kāohi nuiʻia lākou,ʻaʻole lākou e'ōlelo iki. Pono,ʻo kēlā me kēia kaikamahine, no ka mālamaʻana, e mālama i kaʻoluʻolu i ko lākou pilina pili, e hana nui i ka hana a me ka ikaika. ʻO kēia a pau e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i kāu mea i aloha aiʻaʻohe o kāna o kāna mau hana i haʻalele ai me ka hoʻoloheʻole. ʻO ia ke kumu ma kēia a he mea nui loa ia eʻike pono i ka makemake o nā kāne mai nā wāhine e hoʻolohe i kekahi mau mahalo i loko o kēlā me kēia ola. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo koʻoukou mea ola nui nō ia.
ʻO ka hoihoi nui . He mea pono eʻikeʻoe i ka hōʻailona o kāu hoʻoikaika i ka laulima, ola me ke kanaka i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o nā hua'ōlelo,ʻo ia ka mea e hele, ma keʻano, ma mua, mai kou puʻuwai. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki i kāu keikikāne ke mahalo mau i kēiaʻano mālama, a me ka manaʻo o kāna mea aloha. Akā nō paha heʻoiaʻiʻo paha kēia inā wale nō ināʻaʻole ia he mea e hihia ai i kona kūʻokoʻa pono'ī. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka wahine ikaika e hiki keʻaneʻane hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i nā meaʻokoʻa. Pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia e likeʻole ka makemake o ka wahine ikaika i ka wā e kamaʻilio pū ai lākou me ia i ke kaniʻana. A iʻole, inā pēlā, e mālama iāʻoe e like me ke keiki liʻiliʻi, a ma keʻano o ka makuahine, e hoʻoholo i nā mea e pono ai ke kanaka. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua maopopo he kāne ke kanaka, a ma ka manaʻo nui e hiki iā ia ke hoʻoholo, pehea e maopopo ai iā ia. Eia kekahi, inā he mea nui i ka wahine eʻike i kona manaʻo pono'ī, ka manaʻo o nā kāne i kēlā me kēia kūlana, a,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke makemake nei lākou e lohe i kekahi mau mahalo ma ko lākou kūlana, e pono ana nā kānaka e lohe i kēia mau hua'ōlelo i kēlā manawa kēia manawa. ʻO ka mea nui loa i kēiaʻano,ʻo ia wale nō ka mea i hele mai mai kou naʻau wale nō. He aha ka mea eʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu iā ia.
ʻO ke kūlana wahine. ʻOiai, aia kekahi mau hanana, like me ka wahine, a me nā kānaka a pau i ka wā e loaʻa ai, hoʻonanea kekahi mea. Pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia,ʻoiai kokoke i ka nānāʻana o nā kānaka a pau i kēlāʻano likeʻole, ka manawa i manaʻoʻoleʻia o ka hanana o nā hanana me ka mālie, a me keʻano maʻamau. ʻOiai i ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua hoʻomaka nā wāhine a pau eʻike i nā mea a pau, i loko o ka naʻau, a me ka manaʻoʻole. A i ka manawa like, no kekahi kumu, hoʻomaka lākou e hōʻalo i nāʻano hauʻoli, me ka hoʻohui i ko lākou mau wāwae, a me ka puhiʻana i ko lākou lehelehe, a me ke koi aku i nā ho'ākāka. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, kokoke i kahi manawa, hiki i nā wāhine keʻike i ka nui o nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo, nā koho, no ka mea no ke kumu o ka hōʻehaʻiaʻana o kā lākou mea i alohaʻia ai, a ua hoʻopau paha i kā lākou hālāwai. Akā,ʻaʻoleʻo nā kaikamāhine a pau, akā,ʻaʻole makemake lākou eʻike i keʻano o ka hoʻopunipuni,ʻo ka hōʻinoʻia kā lākou mau koho. Ma hope o ka loheʻana mai nā wāhine hoʻokalakino, he paʻakikī ka hoʻopunipuni a me ka'ōlelo hōʻino. A i ka manawa pinepine hiki iā lākou ke lilo i mau kumu koʻikoʻi no ka hakakā. Eia kekahi, no ka hopena,ʻo ia hoʻi ke alakaʻiʻana i kahi mea i manaʻoʻoleʻia no ka nui o nā wāhine i ka haʻihaʻiʻana i kā lākou pilina pilina.
ʻO ka mea pohihihi o ka lumi moe. No kekahi kumu,ʻo ka hapanui o nā wāhine ke manaʻo nei he kokoke i nā kāne a pau ke aloha i nā wāhine nani me nā maka wale nō. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo lākou, a me nā mea nani a pau o nā wāhine nāwaliwali, makemake lākou e lohe i ko lākouʻano iho i nā loiloi hoihoi. Aʻo ka mea nui loa, inā e pili ana kēia mea i kahi ākea a me ka pili pili. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e like me kaʻike o nā kānaka a pau, kokoke paha i kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka i mua,ʻo ia ka mea mua a me keʻano nui. A laila,ʻoi aku keʻano maikaʻi ke hiki i kāna mea i kohoʻia e lilo i mea hoʻokuʻuʻia e hiki ai, e hilinaʻi iā ia iho i kahi moe. Eia hou,ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ai ke hoʻonui i kona manaʻo pono'ī, e like me nāʻano mahalo e pili ana i kāna mau hana kūpono maikaʻi. ʻAʻole he mea kupanaha e kokoke i kēlā me kēia kanaka e makemake e hoʻolohe, aeʻike pūʻo ia ka mea nāna, no kāna hoa noho, e lilo i mea aloha loa,ʻaʻole iʻoi aku kona aloha. A he hoa hui e hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo e like me kekahi luna o kou lumi moe a pau, a i ka manawa e hiki mai ana ke makemake nui eʻoluʻolu, e lawe i kāna hapa aloha.
E mālama i kaʻoihana. ʻO ka hope o kēlā wahine kēia wahine kūikawā e manaʻo ana i kāna mea i makemake nuiʻia, e hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i kaʻaina awakea, aiʻole ka hōʻale i hoʻonaniʻia, aiʻole nā kākini lūlū. Eia hou, pinepine ka hoʻopoinaʻana o kēia mau wāhine i kā lākou mau kāne, i ka mea nui loa, eʻike i ka manaʻo o kā lākou hapalua aloha, e like me keʻano o kahi papa i kūpiliʻia, aiʻole kekahi kukui kukui uila. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole e pili ka mea i hana maoli ai kāu kāne, a me ka maikaʻi o nā mea a pau. ʻO ka mea nuiʻo ia e hoʻomaopopo, e hoʻomaopopo me kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pololei i nā hua'ōlelo, eʻike i kāna mea i kūpono loa.
He mea hoʻomaikaʻi. Pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia, e like me nā wāhine a pau, a kokoke i nā kānaka a pau, no ka nui o ka manawa e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻolimalima - 7 mau lā aiʻole 7 mau makahiki, e makemake mau lākou eʻike i kāna hoa aloha i koe, e like me -eʻike maoli nei ka mea i ka nani wale nō, akā, no ka mea maʻamau loa. ʻO ka pilikiaʻo ia e haʻalele ana i kaʻike, eʻoluʻolu i ka nani a me ka makemake. Maanei, hiki i ka kipi keʻano o ke alahele, kahi hana e hoʻopiha ai i kahi mea likeʻole. No laila,ʻaʻole e minamina i kāu mau mahalo.
Ka'ōlelo aʻo male. He mea nui loa i ka'ōpio keʻike i kona manaʻo makemakeʻaʻole makemake wale, a no paha paha i noʻonoʻo ponoʻia me ia. ʻOiai he mea hiki,ʻaʻole hiki i kēia kaikamahine ke hana i ka'ōlelo aʻo a kāna kāne, akā eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka makemake i ka manaʻo o kāna mea i makemakeʻia.
E aʻo e hoʻolohe i kāu mea aloha, e hoʻolohe a hoʻolohe iā ia i kahi liʻiliʻi. I kēia hihia,ʻaʻole e hiki iā ia ke hoʻohuli i kāna alakaʻi ma kahiʻaoʻao.