He aha keʻano o nā kāne i nā wahine?

Uaʻike nā kānaka a pau i ke aloha o nā kānaka i nā maka i ka manawa e hālāwai ai me kahi kaikamahine, e nānā lākou i keʻano o kā lākou koho. Hiki i nā kāne ke mahalo i ka wahine i kona helehelena, ka nani o kona lauoho, ka lōʻihi o kona mau wāwae, ka nui o kona umauma, ka hoʻonaniʻana o kou mau helehelena, kāu hana a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Akā, aia kekahi manawa i ka helehelena o ka wahine e hoʻonāukiuki i nā wāhine,ʻoiai ua noho pūʻoe i kahi mau makahiki heʻumikumamālua, ua piliʻoe i nā mea i hala, kaʻohanaʻohana, a me nā keiki maʻamau.

Ma hope o nā makahiki he nui, e hoʻomau ke kanaka i ka hoʻolohe i nā mea liʻiliʻi i kouʻike. No laila, he aha nā hewa e ponoʻole aiʻoe e hana i mea e pale aku ai i ke kanaka o kou mau moeʻuhane mai kou mau maka mai , e makemake mau ai i ka manaʻo o kāna kāne wale nō, akā,ʻo nā kāne hoʻi a puniʻoe. No laila, e noʻonoʻo i nā manawa e hoʻonāukiuki i nā kāne i ka helehelena wahine.

ʻO ka maka o ka lauoho i nā wahi i kūʻole ai kēia. Hiki keʻokiʻia a weheʻia nā wahi kūpono i nāʻano'ē aʻe. Hiki ke hoʻopauʻia keʻano o ke kino Romantic, inā e hāʻule wale ka lima o kāu mea aloha i kahi wahi hūnāʻoleʻia. Ināʻike kekahi kanaka ma ke alanui i kahi kaikamahine nani i loaʻa ka lauoho ma o kona pilau hula,ʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻike me ia. ʻO nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi a maikaʻi me nā kāne. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ināʻaʻole makemake ka mea koho iāʻoe i ka "nui".

ʻO ka lauoho nani a me ka lauohoʻole e hiki ke hoʻoweliweli i ke kanaka maʻi nui loa. ʻO nā'ōmaʻomaʻo'ōmaʻomaʻo,'ōniʻomaʻa,ʻulaʻula,'ōmaʻomaʻo a me ka lauoho he mea maikaʻi no nā masquerades, no ka poʻe'ōpio, akā,ʻaʻole no ka wahine'ōpiopio. E koho i nāʻoluʻolu o ka'ōlohelohe. ʻO kēia mau lālā e like me nā kāne.

ʻO nā kui kuhihewaʻole a me nā hanaʻinoʻino, kaʻaʻa a me ka lepo, a me nā mea likeʻole e hoʻohilahilaʻia ai nā kāne. ʻO nā poʻe koho o ka wahine ke makemake nui nei i nā kaikamāhine maikaʻi i ke poʻo o ko lākou lauoho a hiki i ke koʻokoʻo o ko lākou mau kui. E nānā i ka manicure, e kipa pinepine i nā hoʻolālā maikaʻi.

ʻO kaʻala o ka hou ka ikaika a me ka hoʻomauʻana e hoʻohuli i nā kāne wale nō, akā,ʻo kāu mau kaikamāhine. Hoʻolako nui ka meaʻala a me kaʻaʻahu maikaʻi i kēia manawa no ka kohoʻana i ka pono deodorant. Eʻau pinepine, eʻaʻahu i nā lole mai nā mea kūlohelohe wale nō, no laila hiki iāʻoe ke pale i kahiʻala maikaʻiʻole. Hoʻohana like ia me ka honi mai ka waha mai. E kipa aku i ka mea lapaʻau, e paila i kou mau niho i nā manawaʻelua i ka lā, e mālama i ka waha o ka waha a mai kāu mau honiʻana e hikiʻole ke haehae iāʻoe iho! Hoʻohana like kēia i kaʻala o ka mea helemaʻa a me ka waiʻona. Inā pauʻole ka uwahi o kāu kanaka, a laila, kūpono ke kau aku i kēia mea hōʻaia e piliʻole i kou olakino.

ʻO kekahi kumu e hoʻonāukiuki i nā kāne i ka helehelena wahine ka lole holoiʻole a holoi. ʻIke pinepine aku i loko o nāʻaʻahu, e hoʻolei i nā lole kahiko, e nānā i kouʻano. Akā,ʻo ka nui o nā mea pena ma kou mau maka,ʻaʻole ia e hōʻole i kāu kāne. He meaʻoluʻolu ke honi a pā i ka lipstick a me ka lepo. E hoʻohana i nā hōʻailona loea hou e kōkua iāʻoe e nānā mau i nā manawa a pau.

Hiki i ka wiliʻeha a me ke koloheʻole ka mea hoʻonāukiuki i ka wahine ikaika. E nānā aku i kāu kaʻina, e hoʻoponopono i kahi kūpikipiki paʻakikī, hiki iāʻoe ke hele i ka hula, hana a me nā hana'ōpili, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i ke ala a lilo i mea maikaʻi i ke kāne. Eia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona weliweli a me nāʻinoʻino ma luna o nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae, kahi āu e manaʻoʻole ai. E koho i nā kāmaʻa hoʻoluʻolu a paʻa, iʻoleʻoe e hina i mua o ke kanaka o kou moeʻuhane.

Hoʻokipaʻia a hoʻokuʻuʻia i ka kino o ke kino, kahi e laha ai ka cellulite. E nānā i kāu kiʻi, e hana i nā pāʻani, eʻai pono aʻaʻoleʻoe e loaʻa ka pilikia me ka helehelena a me ka hiʻona. E nānā i kou mau maka a me ka lauoho ma kou mau maka. ʻAʻohe mea iʻoi aku ka hoʻowahāwahā a me ka maikaʻiʻole ma mua o ka helehelena lauoho, nā pulupulu a me nā'ōpala, kahi e ulu ai ka lauoho.

Eia kekahi, ke huhū nei nā kāne a me nā wāhine i nāʻala pīpī a me nā kapa lepo, nā kāmaʻa haumiaʻole a me nā kapa maikaʻiʻole, ka lipopō'ōmaʻomaʻo e waiho ana i nā kiʻi, ka loleʻaʻahuʻole, ma o kaʻaʻahu pōkole paha ma lalo o "zero". ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i ka inuʻana o kekahi kaikamahine i ka meaʻai aʻoki i ka papaʻaina.

ʻAʻoleʻo ia he wahine maʻalahi, akā he mea pono ia! ʻO ka nani a me ka nani, keʻano a me ke au hou kēia paʻakikī, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi i alohaʻia e kekahi kanaka maoli.