He aha kāu e hāʻawi ai i kahi wahine no kahi hōʻailona?

ʻO ka lā hānau kahi hoʻomaha nui loa. No ka hoʻolauleʻa ua makemakeʻia e nā mea a pau, no ka mea, he lā leʻaleʻa. ʻOiai, e lilo ana ke kaikuaʻanaʻelemakule,ʻo ka mea liʻiliʻi e leʻaleʻa i kēia lā pāʻina.

ʻAʻole kēia he mea kānalua, no ka mea, "ʻaʻoleʻelemakule ka hauʻoli." Pehea i ka Iubilē? He aha kēia lā hoʻomaha, a he aha ka mea iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka lā hānau? Ināʻoe e pane pololei,ʻo ia ka lā hānau, kahi inoa'ē aʻe. He laha kaulana loaʻo ka Iubili,ʻo ia hoʻi he makana kūpono ka makana no kēia hoʻomaha. Nā kūlana, nā malihini - e kōkua kēia mau mea a pau i kahi hoʻomaha maikaʻi. He mea nui ka mahalo nui i kēia lā,ʻo ia hoʻi ma ka hōʻeaʻana o kaʻelemakule. E hauʻoli nui keʻelemakule no ka meaʻaʻole i poina iā lākou no ia. Inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā poʻe'ōpio a nuiʻole paha, a laila ua hauʻoli pū lākou e hōʻoluʻolu i kēia hanana, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e nānā nui i ka poʻe i ko lākou mau makahiki.

I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio ana mākou no kekahiʻano koʻikoʻi nui e like me "He aha kāu e hāʻawi ai i kahi wahine no ka lā makahiki? ". ʻO kēia kūlana he mea nui loa ia i nā kānaka he nui, akā, no ka hopohopo, maanei, akā,ʻaʻole pono ia. E kākau pū kākou i kahi laina, a e ho'ākāka pono kākou,ʻo ka makahiki hea i ka likeʻole o ka lā hānau? Ma muli o ka paʻakikī o ka hoʻomaha,ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki ke hāʻawiʻia aku ka mea nui. ʻO ia ke kumu e like me ka hauʻoli. He aha kāu e hāʻawi ai i kēia hihia? ʻAe, ua like nā mea like me ka lā hānau. ʻAe,ʻaʻoleʻoe e kū i waho no kaʻike kumu mua, akā,ʻaʻole ia e'ōlelo e pono e hanaʻia, no ka mea e hauʻoli kāu wahine / kaikamahine i kou aloha iā ia, e mālama iā ia.

Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i makemake i kēlāʻano koho, e hoʻomau i ka hele a hele hou i ke kaula. E hoʻomākaukau no ka lā makahiki e pono ana iāʻoe ma mua o ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka lā hoʻomaha. E like me kouʻike,ʻo ka makana maikaʻi loa ke ola. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole kēia he mea waiwai aʻaʻole hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i makana. Pono, ponoʻoe e kōkua e mālama i kāu olakino. ʻO ka wahine ma mua,ʻaʻole hiki keʻike, akā, mai hopohopo, eʻikeʻo ia i nā mea a pau. No laila, ua hoʻoholo mākou e lilo ka makana maikaʻi i ke olakino. No laila, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaopopo i kahi e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ka olakino, aiʻole e pakele.

Hiki iāʻoe ke alakaʻi i nā'ōlelo aʻo mai ka poʻe centenarians o Kepania,ʻo kā lākou mau'ōlelo aʻo e kōkua iāʻoe e hāʻawi i kahi olakino i ka mea koa o ka lā. No laila, e ola i nā makahiki he nui, e like me ko lākou waiwai waiwai, e'ōlelo:

ʻO ka mea mua,ʻo ia kaʻai kūpono. Ināʻike kekahi kanaka i nā mea pohihihi nui o kaʻai pono, nā mea huna o nā meaʻai Iapana maikaʻi, a laila e olaʻo ia no nā makahiki he nui. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā papa wahine ma ke kukeʻana i ka sushi. ʻO keʻano i kapaʻiaʻo "School of Sushi". ʻO ia hoʻi, ke alakaʻi neiʻoe i kāu wahine, me ka manaʻoʻole, i kahi'ā'ī wale nō, akā,ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻolaha neiʻoe i kahi kiʻi nui. E mahalo nuiʻo ia, no ka mea, makemake nā wāhine e aʻo i kahi mea hou a weheʻoleʻia, aʻo ka kuke kuke e like me ka mea e pono ai. Ināʻo ka wahine, no kēlā me kēia kumu,ʻaʻole makemake i ka sushi, aʻaʻole paha i hōʻoleʻia mai iāʻoe, a laila,ʻaʻole i pau nā mea hauʻoli o nāʻaina Japanese i laila.

Aia kahi mele loea kaulana kaulanaʻo Gong -ʻo Gong Fu Cha. He hana nui a kupanaha loa kēia, aʻo ka mea iʻikeʻia i ka wā kahiko, ua laweʻia mai nā hanauna i kekahi hanauna. E mahalo nui nō kaʻu wahine i kēia makana. He mea kupaianaha kaʻono o ke kī, aʻo nā moʻolelo e haʻiʻia i loko o ka hana he mea kupaianaha. Ma waho o kēia mau mea a pau, i ka wā o ka hana e hula mālie a me nā mele paʻani, kahi e hoʻomaha ai. Eia hou,ʻaʻohe āu mea e pono ai. Na ka haku o ka kuke kuke e hana i nā mea a pau, hiki iāʻoe ke leʻaleʻa.

ʻOiai mākou e kamaʻilio nei e pili ana i kahi hoʻomaha,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana me kaʻole ka meaʻono, 'aʻole anei? Akā, ua kamaʻilio kokeʻia e pili ana i ke olakino. He aha e hana ai i kēiaʻano? He aha e hōʻike ai no kahi lā hoʻomana ma kēia hihia, i mea e mālama ai i ke olakino? He mea maʻalahi ka pane. E hoʻohui i ka momona a me ka maikaʻi. Hāʻawi aku i kāu wahine i ka meaʻono loa, akā, e akahai,ʻoluʻolu a nani loa, a he mea nui loa - pono! E waiho i loko o kahi kalakoma momona, hua, a me nā meaʻono'ē aʻe.

E like me kaʻikeʻana o nā mea a pau, hoʻonui nā hāmeʻa i ko mākou ola kino Akā he aha ka hana, no kēia wahine? Maanei, e lohi a mahalo keʻano hoʻolimalima. Inā hāʻawiʻoe i kahi wahine i kahi haʻawina no kahi papa'ōleʻaleʻa, e mahalo nuiʻo ia iāʻoe, no ka mea,ʻo ka golf, ma kēiaʻano, he mea kūpono maikaʻi ia. Hiki i ka wahine ke hauʻoli e aʻo i ka moʻolelo o kēia haʻawina he 600 makahiki, e aʻo i nā rula a hoʻolālā i ka manawa maikaʻi ma waho. He makana maikaʻi wale no ka 50th anniversary!

ʻOiai, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka makana hānau i kahi kimono Japanese, i hanaʻia mai nāʻano kūlohelohe o ka hōʻailona ola, e hāʻawi ai i ka lumiʻaʻole kahi mea hou, akā, i ka home a me ka makemake mau e lele holoʻokoʻa a puni ka hale.

A no ka mea e kamaʻilio ana mākou no ke keʻena, e hoʻokuʻu iki i kēia kumuhana. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka hiamoe i loko o ke keʻena, a heʻoiaʻiʻo kēia, a i 50 mau makahiki, makemake au e hauʻoli a loaʻa ka hiamoe maikaʻi.

No nā mea a pau e hana maikaʻi, makemakeʻia e loaʻa i kou hale kahi kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻolāʻihi i kouʻelemakule. Inā he hale kou i kēia manawa - ua hala ka hapalua o ke kaua, e hāʻawi mai iā mākou i ka hiamoe maikaʻi. ʻO ka hauʻoli. E hāʻawi iā ia i kahi kahua ma luna o ka mahina a me kahi mea lepe e hiki iā ia ke mahalo iā lākou i ke ahiahi -ʻo ia ka mea e hauʻoli loa ai.

Hiki i ka lā hānau hānau ke hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi i nā manawa hauʻoli o kona ola, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia he kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi lima. He makana makanaʻo ia.

Hanaʻoluʻolu. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i ka pīpī ma luna iho iāʻoe, no ka maopopo ponoʻoleʻo ia e hana hewa. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e maopopo, e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi pepeʻi me kahi kiʻi like. Eʻoliʻoli kēia makana i ke ahiahi.

Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i "nūpepa hōʻoluʻolu". E hōʻikeʻia nā hana kūkala loa loa o ke ola o ka lā, me nā kiʻi a me nā kiʻi,ʻaʻohe mea nāna e hōʻole i kēlā makana.

Aʻo ka hopena, inā loaʻa iāʻoe ke kālā nui, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike i kou mau makemake no ke olakino, no ka lōʻihi o ka hauʻoli me ke kōkuaʻana o ke kiki pōhaku aniani o nā kristeni Swarovski e like me keʻano o nā mea i kākauʻia e Iapana, ma ka unuhiʻana,ʻo ia ka "lāʻau o ke ola."