I kēia mau lā, nā wāhine, a me nā kāne, e komo i ka hana a kaʻahahui, uaʻike nui lākou i nāʻoihana a pau. Ua like ko lākou mau kuleana, like nō hoʻi nā dute, ke kuleana hoʻokahi. ʻO ka manawa hope loa ia no nā wāhine heʻano'ē aʻe. A i loko o kēia pene, e like me nā hihia a pau e pili ana i nā kāne a me nā wāhine, aia ke kū'ē'ē ma waena o nā manaʻo kāne a me nā wāhine ma kēia kūlana.
Nānā wahine
Manaʻo nā kāne he nui ke kuleana o ka hoʻomahaʻana ma hope o ka hana o ka lā. Akā uaʻike nā wāhine he nui i ko lākou kuleana e pili ana i ka hana o ka home: ke kakahiaka, kaʻaina awakea a me kaʻahaʻaina ahiahi paha, e holoiʻia, a pono e holoiʻia nāʻaʻahu o nā keiki a me ke kāne.
'Ōlelo mai ka'ōlelo Folk: "Inā makemakeʻoe i ka maluhia i loko o kaʻohana, hoʻokaʻawaleʻoe i nā hana." Akā naʻe, ua poina kēiaʻoiaʻiʻo i ka nui o nā kāne. Aʻo ka mea mua i hanaʻia e ka hapa nui o lākou ke hoʻi mai lākou i ka hale ma hope o ka hana ma luna o kahi moe, e lawe mamao mai kahi hoʻonohonoho TV aiʻole he nūpepa, a hoʻopau i ka hopena o ka lā. Aʻo ka nui o nā wāhine e hele mua i ka lumi kuke aiʻole e hoʻomaka e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale. Akā, e noʻonoʻo, pehea kaʻoi aku o ka māmā a me ka maʻalahi o ka hanaʻana i nā hana o ka home ināʻoe e lawe pūʻia?
Hiki paha i ka manawa e haʻalele ai i ka manaʻo e pili ana i ka wahine ke kuleana no nā hana a pau. Ponoʻole, he mea pono e maʻa mau i ka hana ma ka home mai ke kula kamaliʻi, nā kaikamāhine a me nā keikikāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono e hoʻokaʻawaleʻia nā kuleana a pau e pili ana i ka hana i loko o kēlā me kēia mema. A inā hiki i kahi kanaka ke hana i kaʻaina awakea, hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke keʻena a hana paha i kekahi mea'ē aʻe i manaʻoʻia he wahine, a laila eʻoi aku ka ikaika o kaʻohana.
Male ke nānā
ʻO keʻano maoli, ua manaʻo kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka ua lawa kāna hana hale. ʻOiai ka hapanui o nā wāhine i kū'ēʻole i kēia'ōlelo, akā hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka manaʻo o nā kāne, kahi hoʻonaʻauao i mālamaʻia e ka hale noiʻi o ka huiʻaila o Dove.
Wahi a kēiaʻike, ua manaʻo nā kānakaʻaʻole pono nā wāhine eʻike i kā lākou kōkua i ka mālamaʻana i ka hale. Ua'ōlelo nā kilokilo ke kumu o kēia ka hikiʻana o nā wāhine ke hana mai ka hana pili aupuni i ka "hanana".
60% o nā kānaka i nānāʻia i hōʻikeʻia uaʻikeʻoleʻia kā lākou hana hana e ka poʻe hoa. Akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi, e like me nā kāne, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka halepaku, lawe i kaʻaila, hoʻololi i nā lole līlū a me nā hana hana'ē aʻe e lawe iā lākou i nā hola he 13 i ka hebedoma. Akā, hōʻike pono nā wāhine i kā lākou haʻawina home e hōʻike ai, e'ōlelo ana ka hapa o ka poʻe i pane.
Akā, he aha ka hana pololei a nā kāne ma ka home? ʻO 85% o lākou e hoʻopaʻapaʻa ana ma luna o lākou ka hopohopo no ka weheʻana mai ka hale lepo. ʻO 80% o nā mea pane ua'ōlelo lākou e hoʻokuʻu i kā lākou "hapalua" mai ka hoʻokomoʻana i nā kaumaha kaumaha, e halihali ana i nāʻeke me ka kūʻai a me kaʻai. Ma kahi o 78% o nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika ka hōʻikeʻia he kuleana ko lākou e kūʻai i ka meaʻai na kaʻohana.
No laila, e like me nā mea akamai, hana nui nā kāne i ka mālamaʻana i ka hoʻokele waiwai o kaʻohana. Eia hou, ua noʻonoʻo kēia noi i ka manaʻo o nā kāne wale nō a me ka manaʻo o nā wāhine he nuiʻole. No laila e hoʻomauʻia ka pilikia o ka hana home. No laila, e nā kāne a me nā wahine, e kōkua wale kekahi i kekahi, aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka ikaika o kouʻohana.