Mai poina e pili ana i nā pīhoihoi
Ma hope o 10 mau makahiki o ka noho pūʻana, e kali ana kāu hapalua'ē aʻe mai kāu mau mea liʻiliʻi, nā meaʻoluʻolu a me nā mea kupaianaha. Hōʻike a ma kahi o ka hāʻawi pono a me ka waiwai maikaʻi, e hana kakahiaka i ka moe, e kono i kahiʻahaʻaina hauʻoli ma kahi haleʻaina aʻaʻahu paha i kaʻaʻahu'ōpiopio. E hoʻomanaʻo, no ka mea, i ka hoʻomakaʻana o kou pilina, i ke pihaʻana i ka huhū,ʻaʻoleʻoe i hāʻawi i kēlā me kēia mau pona, holoi holoi aiʻole ka lole mahana me ka huluhulu.
Loaʻa i ka wahine
Mai hoʻokomo wale i ka hana i kaʻoihana kāne, akā, hoʻokolohua. Inā pau ka huhū o ke aloha, he mea kūpono ke nānā i nāʻano e hoʻihoʻi ai. No kēia he nui nāʻano: nā lole'ahuʻula, nā pāʻani hoʻokani pāʻani, nā wahi hou, nā piʻi, nā ala, nā mea hana pāʻani. Ma kēia mau mea e hoʻohauʻoli aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāu nohoʻana. Mai hoʻopoina wale e kamaʻilio pū me kāu hoa i kona mau makemake.
Mai hōʻole nui i nā pilikia o ka home
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ola ke aloha, no laila e hopohopo nui iāʻoe me ka hopohopo paha. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻoʻo ka manawa kēia e lilo ai i hippie. E ho'āʻo e hoʻolāʻau i kou hale ma keʻano o ka meaʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi i loko. E hana i ka loiloi i hiki i kāuʻohana. Pēlā nō ia i nā kuleana o nāʻohana o kouʻohana. E hoʻomohala i nā manaʻo hilinaʻi e pili ana i kaʻoihana kāne a wahine. ʻAʻoleʻoe e kaumaha i ke ola wale nō ke hanaʻoe i kāu mau mea punahele, a hoʻololi i ke koena i nā mea lapaʻau.
E hoʻomanaʻo: ua hoʻokumuʻiaʻoe e aloha,ʻaʻole hoʻi e pā
E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, me kahi kāne e hoʻomau mau anaʻaʻoleʻoe makemake e loaʻa kekahi mea. Mai ia mau mea, koe wale nō kēlā hūnā a holo. Ināʻoe e kuhikuhi mau i nā mea i kūʻole iāʻoe, e loli koke ana kāuʻohana me kāu pilikino. Akā,ʻaʻole ia he mea e hōʻiliʻili i nā manaʻo maikaʻiʻole iāʻoe iho, no ka mea, ma ka hopena, e uhaʻi lākou a puhi i nā mea a pau. E kamaʻilio i kāu poʻe aloha, a ināʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolohe iāʻoe,ʻaʻole lākou ka pilikia, pono paha e hoʻololiʻoe i ke ala. Ma ke ala, e noʻonoʻo i ia mea, malia paha e hoʻonui wale akuʻoe i keʻano o kēia mau mea a pau. ʻO kahi ipu i holoiʻoleʻia e pono ai ka hōʻino?
E lawe i ka hopena
ʻAʻole i ka hana, akā no kaʻohana. I kekahi manawa ponoʻoe e hoʻomaha iā ia. E nā keiki, nā mākua, he mea hauʻoli paha kēia, akā no ko lākou kūlana hiki iāʻoukou ke lilo iāʻoe iho. E ho'āʻo e uku nui i kekahi i kekahi. E kaʻawaleʻoe no ke kūlanakauhale, mai huki i nā keiki ma hope ou, i kekahi manawa e waihoʻoe i ke kupunawahine e hoʻolimalima paha i kahi wahine. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no nā keiki pono'ī, no ka mea,ʻo nā mākua maikaʻi ka mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i ka pilina olakino ma kaʻohana.
E nānā i kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi ma kahi hoaaloha
Akā,ʻo ka lōʻihi o ko mākou olaʻana i ka maleʻana,ʻo ka nui pinepine mākou e hoʻopoina e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi o kahi mea aloha a hoʻokau i ko mākou nānā i nā hewa. E nānā i kaʻoiaʻiʻo ma ke alo, he mau hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi nā mea a pau, akā ua alohaʻoe kekahi i kekahi no nā mea maikaʻi a me nā mea nui iāʻoe. Ma ke ala, hiki paha i kāu hapaluaʻelua ke hōʻikeʻole i ko lākouʻaoʻao maikaʻi, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe kumu no kēia? ʻO kahi laʻana, inā he kuke maikaʻi kāu kāne, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka manawa e hana ai pēlā. A inā heʻakaʻakaʻo ka wahine, e hāʻawi iā ia i mau kumu no ka hauʻoli.
E huli i kahi hoʻokipa hui
No ka hoʻonuiʻana i kahi manawa e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hana i kahi mea maʻamau. He kūpono iaʻaʻole he hoʻomaʻemaʻe maʻamau aʻaʻole e hele i ka mākeke. Eʻike i kahi pilina pili like, e like paha, hiki iāʻoe ke hana pāʻani like, hula, laweʻia me ke kuke aiʻole ka holoʻana. E hoʻopiʻiʻo ia i kouʻohana i ka laweʻiaʻana e kekahi meaʻoluʻolu no lāua aʻelua, i ka manawa hoʻokahi e aʻo i kekahi mea hou a pono.
Hōʻike i ka makemake i nā makemake o kekahi
Ma waho aʻe o nā loina likeʻole, pono e uku i ka nānā pono a me ka pilikino. He mea nuiʻole ka puʻunaueʻana a me ka mahalo iā lākou, akā, hiki i ka waihona ke hoʻoikaika i kou pilina. Eia kekahi, ināʻoe e aloha i ke aloha o kāu kāne i ka paintball a iʻole philately, e loaʻa mau iāʻoe kahi kumu no ka kamaʻilio. Eʻike mauʻoe i kahi o kona ola aʻaʻole loa kahi wahi e pale ai i kāu pilina.
E hoʻomohala i nā pilinaʻohana
ʻAʻole e pōmaikaʻi kēia mau mea, akā,ʻo ka hui pū kekahi. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi kuʻuna ma ka hoʻoukaʻana i kahi lā kūikawā, e like paha me ka makahiki hou a iʻole ka Mele Kalikimaka, a iʻole e hana i kouʻoluʻolu kūikawā. E koho i kahi lā'ī kūikawā, e hōʻiliʻili i nā hoaaloha a hoʻokipa i ka lā āu i kipa aku ai i ka manaʻo o ka noho pūʻana i kou ola. Hiki iāʻoe ke hele mai me kahi haʻahaʻa hoʻouluhua, e like me keʻano, hoʻokipa i ka lā a kāu kāne i hāʻawi mai ai iāʻoe. ʻO kēia a pau he meaʻoluʻolu a heʻoluʻolu.
Hōʻike i kou aloha
Manaʻo kekahi ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki o ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana, uaʻike kēlā me kēia mema o kaʻohana i alohaʻia e kekahi poʻe. Ua mihi mākou e hōʻino iāʻoe,ʻaʻole pēlā. ʻO iaʻano maʻalahi, ma ka nānā muaʻana,ʻekolu mau hua'ōlelo e hana nui nui ana: e hoʻohui i ka hilinaʻi, ka hauʻoli. Pono e hōʻikeʻia nā manaʻo,ʻaʻole wale me nā hua'ōlelo, akā me nā hana. Hōʻoia kaʻoiaʻiʻo e pale i nā'ōlelo a me nā hana.
E makaʻala kekahi i kekahi, mai pili i nā pilikia a eʻimi i nāʻike hou a me kaʻike. Eia kahi mea hūnā maʻalahi o nā hui likeʻole a me ka hauʻoli e kūlanaʻole ma ka helu o nā makahiki i noho pū.