Kūʻoe ma waena o lāua me kāna keiki.
ʻO kēia ka manawa e nānā nuiʻia ka hapanui o ka makuahōnōwai wahine. Ma mua o kou nānāʻana i loko o ko lākouʻohana, aia he mau pilina maikaʻi,ʻoiai, ua manaʻoʻiʻo ka makuahine o kāu kāne. Ua mālamaʻo ia i ka pilina o lāua, kāwili i nā kī o kāna keiki a ua kuke i ka meaʻai. Me kou hōʻeaʻana, ua hoʻololi nā mea a pau - ua kāpae ke keiki i ka haʻiʻana i kona makuahine i nā mea a pau o kona olaʻana, ua hoʻomakaʻo ia eʻike pinepine i ka home, a me nā meaʻai o koʻu makuahine, he mea pono no ka'ōpū, makemakeʻoe e holoholo me nā haleʻaina. ʻO keʻano maoli, he wahine i hānai i kāna keiki no nā makahiki he nui a noho pū me ia, he lili. Akā,ʻaʻohe mea kūlohelohe inā pilikia ia me kou pilina.
ʻO nā hewa o ka makuahōnōwai wahine, ka mea i huhū iāʻoe,ʻo ia ka mea e ho'āʻo aiʻo ia e mālama mau i kāna keiki, no ka mea. Ua maopopo iā iaʻaʻole e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopuni i kāna keikikāne i alohaʻia me ka mālamaʻana i hoʻohanaʻia ai. Aʻo ka mea paʻakikīʻaʻole hiki i kāu kāne keʻike i kahi pilikia. Ua hoʻohanaʻiaʻo ia ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo aia kona makuahine ma laila a hāʻawi mau i nā'ōlelo aʻo, aʻoʻoe i mua o kona mau makaʻaʻole i loaʻa ka mana e pono ai no kāna hoʻoloheʻole.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hele i waho o kēia kūlana. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaopopoʻoe heʻaʻohe kaula kāuʻohana no nāʻoihana koa, aʻaʻohe kumu e māhele ai i ka mana. Ke aloha nei kāu kāne iāʻoeʻelua, akā ma nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa,ʻo ia e noho kaʻawale me ka makuahōnōwai wahine. Inā hikiʻole kēia no kekahi kumu, e kamaʻilio me ka wahine,ʻo ia, aʻaʻole ponoʻoe e wehewehe i ka makuahine i kahi o nā mea iʻaeʻoleʻia i ka hopena o kou ola. E ho'āʻoʻoe e pololei, akā, maiʻae i ka makuahonowai wahine e lawe i ke kīʻaha o ke aupuni i loko o kou mau lima,ʻo ia hoʻi, e ho'āʻo i ka mea maikaʻi a hānai mau i kāu kāne, e nānā i keʻano o kona mau lole a me nā kapa. A e ho'āʻoʻoe e hakakā ma ke alo o kou makuahōnōwai wahine, e kau wale iā ia e kū'ē iāʻoe. Hiki ke hūnāʻia nā mea i koe o kāu mau'ōlelo.
ʻAʻoleʻoe e hele mai.
He mea'ē aʻe paha ināʻaʻole he lili wale kahi makuahōnōwai wahine, akā ua maopopo iāʻoeʻaʻoleʻoe he kāne i kāna keiki. ʻO kēia kekahi hūnōna hūnā maʻamau maʻamau, i ka maka o nā wāhine'ōpio he nui. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole makemake ka makuahine o kāu kāne i kāna keiki e hoʻopau i kona ola me ia, makemakeʻo ia i nā moʻopuna a me ka manaʻoʻole i kāna keiki e mare. ʻO ka pilikia, ua hoʻoholoʻo ia no kekahi manawa lōʻihi e pono ai kāna wahine pono'ī no kāna keiki a, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e kūlike i kēia mau koho.
ʻO ka hapanui o nā manawa, makemake nā makuahine i kā lākou hūnōna wahine e hiki mai i kēia manawa no ko lākouʻohana maikaʻi, eʻae i ka nani a me ka nani, e aʻo maikaʻi a maikaʻi hoʻi,ʻaʻole lākou he naʻaupō, hoʻolohe, mahalo i kaʻohana ma mua o nā mea a pau, he wahine wahine maikaʻi, moeʻuhane i nā keiki a he waiwai maikaʻi. Eia naʻe, inā e loaʻa i nā hūnōna wahine kēia mau mea a pau, eʻike mau ka makuahōnōwai wahine i ka hoʻopaʻi - inā heʻano o ke kūlana a iʻole hikiʻole ke kāhiko i kahiʻaʻahu iā ia iho.
Maanei, ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo he pono ke koho o ka wahine no kāu kāne,ʻaʻole no kona makuahine. A inā kohoʻo ia iāʻoe, a laila e pane akuʻoe i kāna mau koi. Mai ho'āʻo e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ko makuahōnōwai wahine,ʻoʻoe ke kumu o ka wahine, mai komo i nā paio me ia, mai ho'āʻo e hōʻoluʻolu i nā mea a pau. Ma hope o ka manawa, e haʻaleleʻo ia iā ia iho aʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻokuʻuʻia i ka kuleana e kamaʻilio me ia,ʻaʻole ia he meaʻino wale.
He makuaʻinoʻoe.
ʻO kekahi hūnōna hūnā'ē aʻe - he ho'āʻo e pani i kāu mau keiki makuahine. No ka wikiwiki o kāu ho'āʻo, no ka mea peheaʻoe e hānai ai i nā keiki a me nā mea āu e hana ai, ma kona mau maka e hanaʻoe i nā hewa a pau. ʻAʻoleʻoe pēlā e holoi i nā diake,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hānai i ka umauma,ʻaʻole i kaʻaʻahu a me ka hānaiʻole. ʻOiai, ua hiki i koʻu makuahōnōwai wahine ke'ōlelo he mea nui konaʻike, a ua ho'āla aʻe nei i kahi keikikāne nani. Akāʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike i kaʻike a me ke akamai, no ka liʻiliʻi ma kahi o ke kenekene mau makahiki.
ʻO kāu mau keiki kāu mau keiki. Hiki i ka makuahōnōwai ke hana i kahi wale no ke kupunawahine, kākoʻo, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ke kumu kumu. Pono nā mākua e hoʻoholo pehea e aʻo ai i kā lākou mau keiki. No laila, mai hoʻokuʻu iā ia i ka mana a hana i nā keiki pono'ī. Ke kamaʻilio pū me kou makuahōnōwai wahine, e waiho i nā kuhikuhi māmā no nā mea e hānai ai, pehea eʻaʻahu ai, he aha ka mea e nānā ai iā lākou i ke TV. Inā hoʻoloheʻole kou makuahōnōwai, e hoʻopau wale i kāna kamaʻilio me nā keiki - e hana kēia me ka manawa.
Ua hoʻokahuliʻoe i kāna keiki kāne.
He mea kūlohelohe kēlā ma hope o ka māheleʻana, keʻoleʻoe e noho kaʻawale ana, ua emi iki kāu kāne i ka hoʻoloheʻana i ka makuahine, ua loaʻa houʻo ia i nā kūlohelohe hou, ua hoʻololi i keʻano o ke ola. ʻO ke kuhiʻana o ka makuahōnōwai wahine, uaʻikeʻo ia i nā hoʻololi o ke keikikāne wale nō i kaʻino. Hiki iā ia ke ho'āʻo e alakaʻi i nā kūkākūkā aʻo me ia a haʻi iāʻoe he pilikiaʻino kāu i kāna keiki,ʻoiai inā ua hoʻololiʻia nā mea i hoʻololiʻia me ka paʻaʻana o ke kāʻeiʻana ma ka dacha.
Maanei hiki i kāu kāne ke kau i kahi kūpono ma ka hakakā. Hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio me kona makuahine a wehewehe iā ia ua lawa konaʻelemakule e hana ai i kāna mau hoʻoholo pono'ī a hiki i kaʻikeʻana i ka maikaʻi a me ka hewaʻole. No kouʻohana pono'ī, he mea maʻamau ka hikiʻole i kāu kāne ke nānā nui aku i kona makuahine,ʻaʻole naʻe e haʻalele.
Hiki i nā mīkini hewa ke hao i ke ola oʻoe a me kāu wahine, i kekahi manawa no ka hakakāʻana o nāʻohana, ua lukuʻia nāʻohana. Akā, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ke kumu e hana ai kou makuahōnōwai i kēia a iʻole ia kūlana, ponoʻoe ma kaʻaoʻao o kouʻohana, akā e mālama i kou makuahine me ka mahalo. Aʻo ka hana nui ma ka pilina ma waena o ka hūnōna wahine a me ka makuahonowai wahine e pono ke pāʻaniʻia e kāu wahine, ma hope o kāna mau hana mua,ʻo ia ke lawe i ka kuleana noʻoe a mālama i kou mau mākua. No laila, mai lele i ka hakakā me kou makuahōnōwai wahine no kēlā me kēia hana, e waiho i kāu kāne e hoʻoponopono i nā kūlana hakakā a pau. ʻO ka mea nui loa no ka hikiʻole i ka makuahine a me kāna keiki keʻae like.