No laila, he aha keʻano o kaʻokoʻa ma waena o ke kāne a me ka male kāne? No ke aha i koho nui ai ka lālā o ka wahine maikaʻi, ka hoʻoponoponoʻana i nā pūkuniahi a me nā kumu, i mea aloha i ka moe,ʻaʻole me ka kāne kūpono, akā me ke aloha? E ho'āʻo kākou e hoʻopili. ʻOiai, he wahine e loli,ʻo keʻano, "no ke aloha". Ma waho o nā kāne, kahi ikaika o ke kāne, he wahine 90 i loko o 100 mau mea e nānāʻole ai i nā pilina piliʻole, akā, no ka hilinaʻiʻana i ka pilina,ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea e hōʻino ai i kāna kāne. "ʻAʻoleʻo ia i aloha hou iaʻu", "ʻo ia ka mea aloha iʻoi aku ma mua o aʻu", "e haʻaleleʻo ia iaʻu a hele i kāna wahine aloha" - no ia mau manaʻoʻaʻole e hoʻomaha i ke kanaka. A pono kākou e hōʻoiaʻaʻole lākou i mamao loa i kaʻoiaʻiʻo.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā hoʻoholo ka wahine e hana i kēlā hana,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole kūpono kona olaʻohana ma nā mea āpau -ʻole ka launaʻole a me ka hoʻomaopopoʻana, a me nā hanaʻole a me ka hōʻoluʻoluʻole, a me ka hōʻehaʻole i ka pilina ola, aiʻole nā pilikia pilikia. A me nā mea a pau paha i luna. Aʻo ka hua'ōlelo "kumakaia o ka wahine a me ka wahine aloha" uaʻanoʻole i ka nānā aku i kona mau hihiu a me ka pōʻino -ʻoiai, he hoʻokahi wale nō ola! Aʻo kēlā lede "e hele i nā mea koʻikoʻi a pau" -ʻoiai ka nele o ka launaʻana me nā kānaka o ka wahine'ē aʻe, he nui nā wāhine i kēia manawa:ʻo lākou nā hoahana, nā hoa pāʻoihana, nā kumuhana, nā mea nui, nā mea kali. He nui loa ka poʻe o lākou, he poʻe lawelawe lawelawe.
Eia kekahi, makemake nā wāhine eʻoluʻolu a makemakeʻia! Aʻo "ke kāne maoli", koe wale no ka pīpeka a me ka Internet,ʻaʻole ia eʻike i kekahi mea, a hāʻawi wale i nā pua i ka Malaki 8 wale nō, a poinaʻo ia i nā mahalo ma hope o ka lā mua o ka maleʻana. Ma ke ala, he hapa nui o ka wahine i ka wikiwiki i kāna poʻe i koho houʻia, i ka manawa mua i ka poʻe i alohaʻia, a me ka manaʻo mihi e hoʻi aku i kā lākou mau kāne. Akā hele ka manawa,ʻaʻohe mea hou, a nānā hou lākou i kahi mea hou no ke aloha.
No laila, pehea lā e hiki ai iāʻoe ke aʻo i kāu mau kāne e pale i ka kumakaiaʻana o kāu wahine me kāu mea aloha? He maʻalahi ka'ōlelo, akā i ka hana, ala! ʻaʻohe i hanaʻia.
ʻO ka helu mua heʻoi aʻe ka nānā. ʻO kēia nā hōʻoluʻolu, a me nā makana "ʻaʻole pili", a me ka loiloiʻana i kahiʻaʻahu hou a iʻole keʻano o ka noho aliʻi, a me ka hoihoi i kāna hana a me kāna mau hana.
ʻO ka lua o kaʻaha kūkā nui. Ma waho o nā hana a me nā hana maʻamau -ʻikeʻia lākou e pepehi i ka pilina. Nānāʻana no kahi pikinikō, hele i ka pūnaewele, kahi ahiahi o ke awakea - pono kēia mau mea no kēlā wahine kēia wahine.
ʻO ke kolu o nā kuhi heʻano likeʻole i loko o ka pilina ola. ʻAʻole pono e heluhelu hou i ka Kama Sutra, e aʻo hou i nā mea hou, akā ināʻoe e hāʻawi i kāu wahine, e like paha, me nā mea hou a me nāʻaʻahuʻaʻahu hoʻonani, e kahaha auaneʻiʻoe i ka nui o ka mea e ulu ai kona kuko. A iʻole e ho'āʻo i ka wahine ma kekahi wahi kūikawā (ʻoiaʻiʻo, nānā i nā leka o ka palaka!). ʻO nā puke e pili ana i kēia kumuhana i kēia manawa ke hoʻokolohua - hoʻokolohua!
ʻO kaʻehā o ka'aha'ōlelo he mau loina likeʻole. Hiki i kekahi mea - pono ke noho like. Malia paha e makemake kāu wahine i ka lawaiʻa.
Aʻo ka mea nui,ʻo ia ke hoʻomaopopo inā he kāne like ko lāua me ke aloha, a laila,ʻaʻole e nānā kekahi i nā hana ma kaʻaoʻao. He aha ka mea e pono ai, inā he hoa punahele mau loa āu eʻike ai, e like me ia iho, a he aha ka meaʻoluʻolu a me kaʻoluʻolu iāʻoe?