Aia kekahi ma waena o nā wāhine a me nā kāne ma waena o nā poʻe me ka manaʻoʻole a me keʻano o ka honua. Inā makemake ka kāne a me ka wahine i ka pono,ʻo ia ka hoʻomakaʻana o ke aloha. ʻO ka manaʻo e hikiʻole i ka pilina me ke kanaka'ēʻole, hiki ke kūlike me kaʻoiaʻiʻo i nā manawa i hala aku nei, i ka wā o ka nohoʻana o nā wāhine i kaʻaelike me ka manaʻo o "kumu kiʻekiʻe". A i kēia manawa ma nā'āina hikina hikina,ʻaʻohe'ōlelo e pili ana i keʻano o ka pilina me ke kanaka, akā,ʻo ka malihini. I nā'āina'ē aʻe, e like paha i Finland, hiki i kahi wahine ke hele i kahi cafe a iʻole kaʻa wale.
I ke ahiahi, hiki iā lākou ke koho i kekahi hoa no ka hula ma kahi pā me nā kāne. I kekahi manawa e hoʻomākaukau nāʻaina i nā ahiahi, aʻo ka pono e kono ai i ka hula, no nā wāhine wale nō. I nā'āina i kūkuluʻia, nui nā wāhine hou i kēia manawa me ka poʻe kāne i loko o ka nohona o ka lehulehu,ʻoihana, a he nui nā mea e pili ana ma ka hana a me kā lākou manawa manawaleʻa. No laila, heʻanoʻokoʻa keʻano o nā wāhine hou i ko ke ao nei ma mua o ko lākou mau mua. He nui nā wahine e kūʻokoʻa e mālama i ka pili ma waho o ka male, ua lako lākou a hāʻawiʻia, a no laila, me nā kāne e like ana.
ʻO ka pilina me nā kuleanaʻole e hiki ai ke lilo i kahi kāne'ēʻole, pēlā me nā mea kahiko,ʻoiaiʻo ka wahine iʻoi aku ka noʻonoʻo a hana i nā mea he nui ma mua o nā kāne,ʻaʻole ia e pale aku iā lākou mai ka launaʻana a me ka hoaaloha no nā makahiki he nui. Hāpai nā pono o nā wāhine i nā mea a pau e hoʻopuni ana iā ia,ʻo ia kaʻenehana, a me nā haʻuki, a me nā mea kālai'āina. ʻAʻole nā wāhine a pau he mau hale wahine me kahi polokalamu keʻakeʻa kīhini e hiki ke noʻonoʻo wale no ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me ka kukeʻana i ka meaʻai. ʻOiai lākou e'ōlelo neiʻaʻole nā wāhine iʻike i keʻano o ka hoaaloha,ʻaʻole pēlā, inā pahaʻaʻole he mea e māhele ai. No laila, pilina ka pilina ma kaʻohana no ka maikaʻiʻole o ka nohona, nele i ke kālā, ka nānā a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Aʻo ka pilina, e pili ana i ka pilina me ke kanaka'ēʻole, he mea maoli ia, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe pilikia i waena o lākou. ʻO kekahi manaʻo noʻeau eʻike wale nā wāhine iā lākou iho ma keʻano he wahine, he wahine wahine, a no laila, e ho'āʻo ana nā pili likeʻole e hoʻemi i ka maleʻana. ʻO ia paha, akā, aia kekahiʻano o nā wāhine nona ka pilina me ke kāne he puka waho e hiki ai iā ia ke hana e like me konaʻike he pono.
Uaʻikeʻia ka hoʻonaniʻana o nā wāhine i ka pilina ma waena o nā wāhine a me nā kāne. Aia nā wāhine e hele i nāʻaʻaʻaʻa mau no ka "kiʻi" iā lākou iho he knight no kekahi manawa, akā e kamaʻilio wale, e kūkākūkā i ka pāʻani a lākou e makemake ai, e hoʻokaʻawale i ko lākou manaʻo i ka poʻeʻike iāʻoe. He maikaʻi loa ke kanaka maʻaʻole i ke kamaʻilioʻana me ia,ʻaʻole ia e koi iā ia e hoʻomau i ka pilina.
Ua paleʻia nā pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine e nā kumu o nā manawa ma mua, e like me nā "kāne a pau o nā wāhine" aʻaʻole hiki iā lākou keʻike i ka wahine, koe wale nō he mea no ka moekoloheʻana.
ʻO ka wahine, he kanaka loiloiʻo ia a hiki iā ia ke maʻalahi i nāʻano nuanua likeʻole,ʻoiai, inā'ōlelo kekahi kanaka i kahi hoaaloha wahine - "ʻO nā wāhine a pau, he naʻaupō", he hoaaloha akamai,ʻoiai eʻikeʻo ia i kēlā hōʻike iʻokoʻa ma mua o kaʻikeʻana o ka hoaaloha - he kanaka, ma kēia kūlana. ʻO ka pilina me ka hoʻokōʻoleʻole ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahineʻaʻole hiki ke pale me ka mahaloʻole ma kekahiʻaoʻao a ma kekahi. ʻO nā pilina ma waena o nā lāhui kanaka o ka honua, heʻano pilikino wale nō, akā, heʻokoʻa ke kanaka ma waena o nā holoholona, he mea ia e noʻonoʻo ai, a noʻonoʻo i ke kino o ka wahine ma muli o ka mea piliʻole no ka hoʻomauʻana o kaʻohana. hiki i kahi wahine ke hana.