ʻO ka male i ka wā haʻina, he mea weliweli paha,ʻaʻole paha?

ʻO kekahi wahine i ka wā maʻamau, nīnauʻo ia i nā nīnau, inā he pilikia ka moekino i kēia manawa aʻaʻole paha. Pono nā hoa eʻike e pili ana i nā pono āpau āpau a pau ke loaʻa o ka moekolohe ma ka wā o ka male. A no ka loaʻaʻana o ka mea nui loa mai ka moekolohe, e kūkākūkāʻoe i nā mea a pau me kāu hoa. Loaʻa nā nīnau a kēlā me kēia me nā nīnau, inā he nui ka moekolohe ma ka wā o ka menstruale aʻaʻole paha? ʻAʻole he pane maʻamau i kēia mea, no ka mea, he pilikino ka hopena, hoʻoweliweli aʻaʻohe. ʻO ka pilikia o ka moekolohe i ka wā o ka malekino ka piʻi nui aʻe o ka hananaʻana o nā maʻi likeʻole i kēlā me kēia hoa. ʻO ka hopena kēia o ka maʻi kino e hoʻonui ai i kahiʻano kumuhana no lākou, aʻo kēia koko he koko. I loko o ka manawa haʻalulu, ua wehe pāluaʻia ka pūpū, aʻo ka huapalapala e komo mālie i loko, e hoʻonāʻia ana.

ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke palekana i ka maʻi o ka maʻi urethra mai ka pilina o ka wahine. Hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i nā hopena maikaʻi. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe he hoa pili mau, pono e hōʻole i ka moekolohe ma ka wā maʻamau. I ka loaʻaʻana o ka moekolohe ma ka haʻalina, ponoʻoe e mālama pono i nā rula o ke olakala pilikino. Ponoʻoe eʻau, ma mua o ka lāpili a ma hope o ia. Hoʻopaopopo nā kauka me ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka condom, me ka moekolohe ma ka wā o ka menestrua.

ʻO kekahiʻano pilikino o ka moekolohe i ka wā o ka malekiko kahiʻano maikaʻi loa. Ua manaʻo ka nui o nā kānaka he meaʻole ia e pili i ka moeʻana me ka wahine i loaʻa i ka male. ʻAʻole paha kēia i keʻano o ke alohaʻole o kāu kanaka iāʻoe, no ka mea, aia nō i kekahi kanaka kona mau manaʻo pono'ī. I kekahi manawa, hiki i ka wahine ke hele i ka moekolohe me ka kāne, no ka mea,ʻo ia mau lā ua manaʻoʻo ia he lepo. A no laila, 'aʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha aʻoluʻolu i ka pilina. Ponoʻoe e kūkākūkā me kāu hoa pili inā paha e moekoloheʻoe aʻaʻole paha.

ʻO ka pōmaikaʻi o ka moekolohe ma ka wā o ka menesthale he hoʻohaʻahaʻa nui ia o kaʻeha manstrual i nā wāhine. Ma muli o kaʻikeʻana o ka spasm i ka wā o ka hoʻohapu, hoʻokuʻuʻia ka wai mai ka pūpū a ua hala kaʻeha.

ʻO ka hapanui o nā wāhine, ke moekolohe i ka wā o ka hana kāne, hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa kaʻoliʻoli nui aʻe mai ka maʻi. Hanaʻia kēia ma muli o ka pupuhi o kaʻili a lilo i mea liʻiliʻi a paʻakikī a maikaʻi ke hoʻomaikaʻi. Hoʻopili kēia mau mea a pau i kahi leʻaleʻa maikaʻi i ka wā o ka moekolohe i ka wā o ka male.

I kēia manawa,ʻikeʻoe inā he mea weliweli ka moekino ma ka malekane aʻaʻoleʻole.

ʻO Elena Romanova , no ka pūnaewele