ʻO ka loaʻaʻana o nā makana he manawaʻoluʻolu loa ia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻikeʻia kekahi makana e mākou e like me kahi mea e hōʻikeʻole ai i kahi manaʻo wela no ka mea e loaʻa ana, akā,ʻo ia ke kī nui i kahi kiko'ī e pili ana i ka mea hāʻawi. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā makana a pau mai nā wahi noho aku o nā mākaʻi wahine male mai ka male kāne o ka lāhui. Mahalo i nā makana likeʻole, nā mea mahalo a me ka nānā, mahalo nā kāne i ka hoihoi a me ka mahalo i ka wahine.
ʻO kēia,ʻo kēia hōʻailona no ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe e kōkua i ke kanaka e hōʻike iā ia iho i ka mea hānai maikaʻi, a me ke kanaka lokomaikaʻi. Akāʻo ka hapanui o nā wāhine e hopohopo nei i kēia "lokomaikaʻi" aʻo ia ke kumu i hoʻoholo ai mākou e kaʻana like i ka loaʻaʻana o nā makana mai nā kānaka me kaʻikeʻole i ka hilahila a me ke kaumaha.
He aha ka makana?
ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā makana e pili ana i kahi hoʻolālā kūʻai -ʻoʻoe iā wau, aʻo wau iāʻoe. ʻO ka mea kūpono a kūpono hoʻi, ma ka manaʻo o nā wāhine he nui,ʻo ia ka loaʻa mai o nā makana mai nā kāne i ka wā o nā hālāwai i hanaʻia (lā hānau, Malaki 8, a pēlā aku). ʻO nā makana, e like me ke kānāwai, uaʻikeʻia me ka mahaʻole aʻaʻole e komo i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo hōʻehaʻole. Hāʻawiʻia ka makana e ka mea hāʻawi, aʻo ka mea e loaʻa ana, mahalo iā ia me nā meaʻai a pau mai ka papaʻaina a hoʻolālā i kahi hana maikaʻi. I kēiaʻano hopena, loaʻa pinepine ka manawa o ka hāʻawiʻana i kahi makana iʻole eʻikeʻoleʻia, hiki ke'ōleloʻia ma kahi o ka mea maʻamau. Akā,ʻaʻohe mea i hoʻopiʻiʻia a hōʻehaʻole nā mea a pau iā lākou iho. ʻOiai i kēlā manawa, lawe mau nā wāhine i nā makana mai nā kānaka a mai noʻonoʻoʻole i ia mea.
Nā makana i manaʻoʻoleʻia
ʻO nā mea a pau,ʻo ke kāne a me ka wahine, e nalowale mau ana inā loaʻa iā ia he makana. Ma ke ala, kaʻoi aku o ka waiwai a me ka maikaʻi i ka makana, ka ikaika o ka manaʻo o ka hilahila. ʻO kahi wahine i kēlāʻano, hoʻomaka kokeʻo ia e hoʻopunipuni a noʻonoʻo i ka hana hewa i ka hana a ke kanaka. E holo koke aku nā hua'ōlelo o ka plan i ka pane o ka mea nāna i hāʻawi mai: "E, no ke ahaʻoe i hoʻolimalima nui ai, mai hanaʻoe", "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu keʻae i kēlā makana," a pēlā aku. Mai'ōleloʻoe pēlā, akā e loaʻa iāʻoe ka makana. No laila, ua hāʻule ka wahine i kekahi hilinaʻi ma luna o ke kāne, no ka mea, ua koiʻiaʻo ia e uku. A "hoʻokuʻu" ke kauā i mua o ka neʻeʻana o ka wahine. He mea pono eʻikeʻoe i kēia mau mea waiwaiʻole, no ka mea, he pono ke aloha a me ka mahalo o ke kāne mai ka wahine. He mea maikaʻi loa inā makemake ka wahine e hāʻawi i ke kanaka i ke aloha maikaʻi i kona kino, akā peheaʻo ia e hana inā hoʻopiʻiʻo ia aʻaʻoleʻike i keʻano e hana ai? I kēlā manawa kūpono e hana kūponoʻole i kahi makana i manaʻoʻoleʻia, i mea e hōʻoluʻoluʻole ai i kekahiʻano hilinaʻi.
Maʻaneʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kahi ala maʻalahi a me ka maikaʻi loa e kōkua ai e puka i waho o ke kūlana: ma ka pane i kāu makana pono'ī e pane aku i kahi kanaka. He maikaʻi ke hana koke ia ma hope koke o kou lanakilaʻana ma ka loaʻaʻana o kāu makana. ʻO kēia ala maʻalahi, akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e kōkua maoli i ka wahine "me ka launaʻole" e puka i waho i ke kāne a me ka hopohopo i ka manawa like.
Ma ke ala, hoʻonele i nā kāne me ka makana i hāʻawi likeʻia me ka uku a me ka mea nuiʻole. Hiki ke hāʻawi i kēlā makana i keʻano maʻamau, akā ua hāʻawiʻia me ka naʻau a pau, me nā'ōlelo mahana e pili ana i ke aloha, kaʻike, ka pilina, ke kākoʻo, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. A inā hāʻawi kekahi kanaka i ka makana, ʻaʻole pono iā lākou ke hāpai iā lākou iho i ka manaʻo hoʻohālike e hiki i kēia pilina ke loaʻa iā ia i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
Aʻo ka mea hope loa,ʻo ka loaʻaʻana o nā makana mai ka wahine ikaika aku, he mea pono mau. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe makemake e pili i kēia a iʻole kēlā kanaka,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hāʻawi i ka makana. A ināʻo ka mea hāʻawiʻo kāu hoaaloha aloha a mea aloha paha, ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae i ka makana āu e hōʻino ai iā ia, e loaʻa i kāu "kānāwai", mai poina e hōʻike iā ia i kou aloha piha, ināʻaʻole i ka hoʻiʻana, akā i nā hua'ōlelo!