ʻO ka hapanui pinepine, lilo ka poʻe'ōpio i ka mea nāna i hoʻokomo i ka pilina piliʻole. ʻO nā wāhine i ka nānāʻana i kā lākou kāpena aʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi e komo i kēlā loina. ʻO ka wā'ōpio e pili ana i kahi wahine makuahine a he haku wahine, a he hoaaloha, a he makuahine. ʻO kēia wahine he kumu nui ia o ka hoʻouluʻana i kahi'ōpio. ʻO ka hapanui o nā manawa, koho nā kāne i nā wāhine iʻelemakule, ināʻaʻole lākou i lawa i ka hoʻomehanaʻana ināʻaʻole lākou i lawa i ka maʻi wela. ʻO ka wahine i ka manawaʻoi aku kona'ōpio ma mua o kona mau makahiki, i kahi kokoke i kahi keiki. No ka moekolohe ma waena o nā pilina o nā hui likeʻole, pono eʻike i keʻano o ka piʻiʻana o ka moe kolohe i nā kāne ke hele mai i loko o 20-25 mau makahiki, a ma nā wāhine - 10-15 mau makahiki ma hope.
ʻO ia ke kumu e mālama lōʻihiʻia ai ka moe koloheʻana i loko o ia mau pilina. ʻO kekahi mea nui'ē aʻe,ʻo ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i kā lākou mau moeʻuhane i loko o kaʻike maoli,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi me kahi'ōpio'ōpio ma mua o ka hoa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hikiʻole i nā kānaka o ka makahiki a me ka mau makahiki ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia. ʻO ke kanaka, no ka mea, he mea maʻalahi kēia, aʻo ia ka mea i hilinaʻiʻia i kaʻikeʻana o kahi wahine akamai i kaʻoliʻoli iā ia ma mua o ke kaikamahine o ka'ōpio a me ka'ōpio. No ka wahine, he hoa'ōpio i ka wahine, he mea maikaʻi loa ia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, aia ia me ia e hoʻi ana i kona wā'ōpiopio. ʻO ka pilina pilina ma lalo o ka mahina, honi - hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi wale i kahi'ōpio, no ka mea,ʻo ke kanaka ma kona mau makahiki e pili ana i ke ola aʻoi aku ka pololei. ʻO nā mua, ka manaʻo o nā manaʻo, ka makemake -ʻo ia ka mea a kekahi wahine eʻike ai i loko o ka moekolohe a me ka naniʻole o kona loaʻaʻana. Pēlā i loko o ka wahine me kahi'ōpiopio a ka wahine i manaʻo ai i kona'ōpio. Ma ka pukaʻole o nā pilikia a me ka pāpāʻana, a hikiʻole iāʻoe ke kali mai ka hoa, hāʻawi i ka wahine i ka manawa kūpono e loaʻa ai kahi mea hou aʻikeʻoleʻia ma mua o ka pilina pili. No laila,ʻo kēlā moe me ke kanaka'ōpiopio he nui ka nui o ka paneʻana i ka nīnau i ka pili o nā wāhine i ko lākou mau makahiki i ka wahine me nā'ōpio.
E nā'ōpiopio,ʻoiai,ʻaʻoleʻike i ka luhi i kēia mea, he mea nui ia no ka wahine. No hoʻokahi pō, hiki i kahi wahine ke hele i ka pilina me ia hoa hana a hiki i kekahi manawa. A i kēia mau lā a pau e hāʻawi aku ke kanaka i nā mea maikaʻi. ʻOiaiʻo ia, e noʻonoʻo ana i kaʻike o kāna hoa pili, e hana i nā mea a pau i loko o kēiaʻoihana e hāʻawi iā ia i ka makemake nui aʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻopili i kona mau maka. Eia nō hoʻi,ʻaʻole loa e hōʻole kekahi hoa like, a me ia pūʻoe e ho'āʻo ai i ka wahine kolohe ma kahi'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi lā, ma kahakai hoʻokahi, ma ka nahele. ʻO ka mea hou e hikiʻole i kahi wahine ke uku aku me kahi kanakaʻelemakule. Ma ke ala, heʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoa'ōpio e loaʻa kahi wahine makuahine, no ka mea,ʻo kāna mau mea akamai a me kāna mau taleni i kēia hana, ua hanaʻo ia he wahine, heʻanoʻike pono. Heʻoi aku ke kuko a me ke ahi, a ma muli o kēia hana i hanaʻoleʻia e lākou. Ma kahi hua'ōlelo,ʻo ke kuko iā ia he kānāwai ia. ʻO ka wahine me ia,ʻaʻole ia e makaʻu i ka ho'āʻoʻana i ke aloha i nā mea pili i ke aloha, ua hoʻopakele loaʻiaʻo ia,ʻaʻole loa eʻoki wale i kona poʻo ma keʻanoʻo ia e hōhewa iā ia aiʻole e hoʻomaopopo i kona makemake. I kekahi manawa,ʻo ka wahine e hoʻomau mau ana i ka moekolohe me kona mau hoa,ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ka mea i loaʻa iā ia mai kahi pō o ke aloha i nā'ōpiopio. Ma ke ala, 'aʻole i hiki i kona "walaʻauʻelemakule" ke hoʻokomo i ka wahine i ka hoʻoheiʻole.
No laila, e noʻonoʻo i nā mea a pau i luna nei, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo me ka hilinaʻi piha e pili ana nā wāhine i ka makahiki i kūpono loa a pili pono i ka wahine me nā'ōpio. ʻO ia me kahi hoa hana e hiki iā ia ke hauʻoli a maikaʻi i nāʻano a pau o ke ola. ʻO ia ka mea e haʻaheo neiʻo ia a ua mākaukau mau e kamaʻilio no nā hola, no ka mea, he wahine alohaʻo ia. Hauʻoli mauʻo ia, aʻoliʻoli - he wahine ka mea e huki mai i ka ikaika mai kāna'ōpiopio. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ka wahine maikaʻi piha,ʻaʻole wale nō nā kāne.
ʻO ka wahine o kona mau makahiki,ʻaʻole ia he mea hoʻohaʻahaʻa, akā, he ponoʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke mahalo. ʻO ka hapanui o nā'ōpio iʻikeʻole i ka pilina me kā lākou mau hoa, hiki iā lākou keʻae a mahalo i ka pilina me kahi wahine kūpono, aʻo ka mea mua loa e hāʻawi aku i ko lākou honua i ko lākou kuko a me keʻano "hiamoe." He mea nani a hoʻonani maikaʻi nā wāhine uʻi i ka wahine. Hāʻawi lākou i kahi hoa pili aʻaʻole loa e noho paʻa. Akā, he mea maʻa mau loa ka hoʻomanaʻoʻana i keʻano o ka wahineʻelemakuleʻaʻole he hoa pili wale no ka wahine, e like me kāna hoa'ōpio. A he mea hiki loa paha ke ulu i ka pilina like me ka mareʻana. Ma ke ala, ua ikaika loa kēlā mau maleʻana. Ma hope o kāna kāne'ōpiopio, he'ōpiopio kāna wahine. ʻIkeʻo ia i ka moekolohe,ʻoi aku, makemake nui - makemakeʻia e hoʻokomoʻia i kona wā'ōpiopio. Pono ke kanaka i ka hilinaʻi, ka noi a me ke aloha. A he mea pono e hoʻomanaʻo i nā makahiki a pau e hoʻolohe ana i ke aloha. A o ka mea a na kanaka a puni e olelo nei, a me na olelo a pau a me na hoohewa ana, aole pono ia mau mea a pau. No ka ho'āʻoʻana i ka hauʻoli,ʻaʻohe mea kuleana e pāpā ai. Makemake wau e lilo i mea huhū, e komo i loko o ka honua o ke aloha a me ke aloha, no laila,ʻaʻole e hana i kēia manawa. A laila, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e ho'āʻo,ʻaʻoleʻoe. Eia nō hoʻi, he mea pono e hoʻomanaʻo i ka pili o ka pilina, pili i nā mea pili, nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo, nā makemake, ka aloha, ke aloha, a me ka makahiki.