No ke aha i hea ai nā kānaka?


I ka waimaka o ka wahine he mea ikaika loa, e hana i nā kāne. Hāʻawi lākou i ke aloha a me ke kaumaha. A pehea lā lākou e hana ai i nā wāhine - nā waimaka o ke kāne? I kekahi manawa, hoʻopoina nā wāhine he poʻe like nā kānaka me ka naʻau a me ka puʻuwai. Loaʻa nā kānaka i kaʻike a makemake i ka mahanahana a me ke aloha.

No ke aha e kāhea ai nā kānaka. Nui nā kumu no ka waimakaʻeha o ka waimaka, aʻo kekahi mau waimaka paha. Inā hāʻule kēia kanaka i kēia waimaka, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i lilo i "pōkole",ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke komo i loko o ia iho kaʻawaʻawa o ka mea e hana nei. A hoʻokahi kanaka ikaika wale nō ke hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo. Aʻo ka mea nāwaliwali, e hopohopo nōʻo ia i nā mea nui.

ʻO ka pōʻino weliweli loa i hiki ai i ke kanaka ke hea aku,ʻo ia ka make o kekahi mea kokoke i ka pili: mau hoaaloha. ʻOiaiʻo ia i kēia wā pilikia o ke ola, pono nōʻo ia e noho paʻa i ke ola. E hoʻopau wale i nā pilikia hoʻomana a pau iāʻoe iho. He hana paʻakikī kēia, pono ia no ka powerpower special. Akā, i kahi manawa i pau ai nā hoʻomākaukau no ka hoʻolewaʻana, hiki ke kanaka a hele mai ma waho ona, he leo walaʻau paha, kēlā manaʻolanaʻole, aʻo ka papalina wale nō e kūʻai i nā waimaka o ke kanaka.

ʻO ka nui loa o nā kāne e hikiʻole ke kāpae i nā waimaka ma ke kaʻawaleʻana me kahi wahine aloha. ʻAʻole lākou i ka ikaika e kaua ai, e hoʻihoʻi i ka mea aloha. Mai nā mea a pau e hana nei, hoʻomaka lākou e hana melancholy, a hiki iā lākou, e like me nā wāhine, e holo i loko o kahi uluna. Akā, hoʻokahi wale nō manawa o kēia waimaka e hikiʻole ai i kekahi keʻike.

I ka wā o ka hale pule, hōʻike pū nā kāne me ka waimaka. Aka, aia ma ke manawa manawalea, ke komo nei ke Akua i ko lakou ola, a me ka hoike ana i na kihi huna o ka uhane. I kēia manawa, ua lilo ke kanaka iā ia iho, aʻaʻoleʻo ia i hōʻike i kona ikaika a me kāna kāne. He keiki wale nōʻo ia, maʻemaʻe a wehe.

Manaʻo nā wāhine e hiki wale iā lākou keʻike nui i ka maʻi o nā keiki. E hiki wale iā lākou ke hoʻonui i nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ke kanaka i ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ka wahine, he pinepineʻole i ka poho hinaʻole i hikiʻole ke hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo i kēlā me kēiaʻano.

Ināʻike wale nā ​​wāhine. He aha ka hana i loko o ka naʻau o kekahi kanaka i kēia manawa. He mea kaumaha iā ia a me ka lonone i kēlā manawa. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kāhea e like me ka wahine,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kāhea aku i kona mau hoaaloha a uwē i loko o kona kapa. No ka mea i hanaʻia mai kekahi "ho'āʻo" hou,ʻoi lōʻihi ma mua o ka wahine.

ʻAʻoleʻoe i noʻonoʻo i ke kumu e make pinepine ai nā kānaka i ka wāʻelemakule mai ka hopena puʻuwai. No ka hikiʻole iā lākou ke hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo, ko lākou waimaka. Ke waiho nei kēia mau mea a pau i loko o lākou, a keʻoki nei i ka naʻau i nā'āpana liʻiliʻi. Eʻai i kaʻuhane. Hoʻopuka ke ahi i nā'ōpū o ke kino. Akāʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike i kēia, no ka mea, ua manaʻo lākou aia ma lalo o ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe.

Akā, ma hea kahi e pīpī ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo? Loaʻa iā lākou kahi ala'ē aʻe, ka inu, inu a inu. Ke manaʻo nei lākou iā lākou,ʻo ka waiʻona ka mea hoʻokahi wale nō ma nā kūlana a pau. Iʻole e noho kaʻawale nā ​​kānaka i loko o lākou iho,ʻaʻole lākou i hele i loko o ka inu inu,ʻo mākou-nā wāhine e kōkua iā lākou. ʻO mākou nā mea mua o nā mākua a pau e pono ai ke manaʻo i kā lākou mau keiki kāne, a me kā lākou mau kāne, a me ko lākou mau kaikunāne. ʻO ka wahineʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o nā kāne.

ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kekahi kanaka inā ua uēʻo ia i mua ou. Heʻokoʻa nā waimaka o ke kāne mai ka waimaka wahine. Kāhea nā wāhine ma waho aʻaʻole hoʻi. Hiki i ke kanaka ke kani wale aku i kahi manawa, i piha kona naʻau i nā manaʻo. ʻO ka haʻalulu o kahi kanaka - heʻano nui ka manaʻo,ʻo ke kanaka meʻoe heʻoiaʻiʻo a hōʻike iā ia iho iāʻoe me kaʻole o kona'ōpū.

Mālama nā wāhine i nā kāne,ʻaʻohe nui o lākou ma kēia ao. E hoʻomaha lākou i ka home, e kāhea a kāhea paha, a hoʻolohe waleʻoe i kā lākou heaʻana i kaʻuhane. Mai hoʻomanaʻo,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻakaʻaka i ka waimaka o kahi kanaka.