ʻO ka mea mua loa, ka wahine -ʻo ia ka hōʻike kino o nā manaʻo ma waena o nā kānaka. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole i manaʻo nā kānaka a pau, waiho mua i ka pilina, a laila nā mea maikaʻi loa. Wahi a ka poʻe kāne, he aloha nui -ʻo ia ke kumu nui o ka moekolohe. Akāʻo ka hapa nui o mākouʻaʻole maopopo loa i kēia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ka wahine pono'ī,ʻo ia nō keʻano o ka hoʻomauʻana o kaʻohana, a me ka hoʻolimalima kālā. No laila he aha kēia aloha ma hope o nā mea a pau? ʻO nā mea a pau loa i ka wā kahiko, he kāne i loaʻa i ka wahine, ma ka mea mua, e ho'āʻo i kona mana a me kona mana, aʻo ia wale nō kāna mālama i ka hoʻonuiʻana i ka lāhui. Eiaʻoe nāʻano kāne kāne, a ola i kēia lā. No ke aha no ke kāne e makemake ai i ka wahine, a me ka aloha o ka wahine a ma kahi hea e hana ai kekahi e like me lākou?
Wahi a psychologists, 'aʻole hiki i nā poʻe o kēia wā ke mālama i ko lākou pilina ma keʻano pilikino a pilina. No ka mea he nui, nā kāne a me nā wahine, ka wahine, he mea ia e manaʻo ai i ka manaʻo pilikino, kahi kumu e wehe ai i nā hale āpau a iʻole keʻano e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia. Akā, noʻonoʻo paha, he likeʻole keʻano o ke kūkokoʻana o ka wahine ma ke kane a no laila,ʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu iā mākou e lohe i ke aloha "aloha wau iāʻoe! "Ma mua o kēlāʻano maʻamau" makemake wau iāʻoe! ". Eiaʻoe ke aloha a me ka wahine, i maʻalahi i waena o lākou ma ka loheʻana.
No laila, e like pū kāua a pau ma kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona e noʻonoʻo i nā kumu nui no ke kāne e makemake ai i ka moekolohe, a me ka wahine o ka lāhui i ka pilina a me ka aloha.
ʻO ka wahine he kuleana .
Manaʻo ka hapanui o nā wāhine he wahine maikaʻi ka wahine nāna e kuke i kaʻahaʻaina maikaʻi, ke kāhiko i kona mauʻaʻahu, aʻo ka makemake o kāna kāne e pili iā ia,ʻoiai inā ua kaumahaʻo ia. Inā maikaʻiʻole ka wahine i ka pono o ka wahine, e nānāʻo ia i kaʻaoʻao a hele. No ka wahine, ma ka mare, e nānā nui iā ia, a me ka manaʻo e pono kāna kāne, aʻo ia wale nō i ka manawa o ka piliʻana i ka hoa. Eia ka hiʻohiʻo mua loa o ka hapanui o nā wāhine male ma keʻano likeʻole.
Ka hoʻoikaika pilikino ma o ka moekolohe .
ʻO ka hapanui o nā manawa,ʻikeʻia e nā kāne ma muli o ka wahine e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻoikaika i kā lākou iho a hōʻike i ka ikaika a me ka hanohano o kā lākou kāne. ʻO kēlā kaikamahine kēia kaikamahine i huki i kahi moe,ʻikeʻo ia heʻano e hoʻomaopopo ai iā ia iho i kona kūlanaʻole. ʻO kēia ka mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ke kanaka. He mea maʻalahi i ka wahine ke loaʻa i ke kūlana wiwoʻole ma o kaʻikeʻana he aloha a aloha nuiʻiaʻo ia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he wahine kūpaʻa he wahine ia i ka poʻohiwi o ke kanaka ikaika, hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi ma nā wā pilikia.
ʻO ke kāne a me ka noho kaʻawale .
E nā kāne, i ka wā e puni ai ka moemoeka iā lākou, e manaʻoʻoe i ka wahine ke ola maikaʻi loa mai ka noho kaʻawale, ka hana hōʻeha a me ka "haleʻoleʻole". Akā, hōʻoia nā wāhine no ka hikiʻole ke mālama i nā kāne kokoke iā lākou iho. A ma muli o kēia, ua kanu pinepine mākou iā mākou iho i loko o mākou iho a manaʻo mākou he ponoʻole. Aʻo ia nō, no ka mea, he mea pono iā mākou ke kāne, akā,ʻaʻole ma keʻano he hoa moe kolohe, akā,ʻo ke kanaka e hiki ke hōʻoia i ka mea'ē aʻe a hoʻolei aku i kahi noho kaʻawale.
ʻO nā hopena ma kahi moe e pili like i nā haʻuki .
He nui nā kāne e hiki keʻike i ko lākou moekolohe me nā huaheluʻekolu: e like me ka 16, 25, 88. Ma kēia papa inoa, 16 keʻano o ka hopena o ka uluʻana, 25 kona mau makahiki maoli, 88 ke helu o nā hoa wahine.
ʻO ka hapanui o kēlā mau kāne o ka kāne ke nānā aku nei i ka mania o ka "hōʻiliʻili" i ka heluna o nā kaikamāhine a me ka wahine. ʻOiai hiki iā ia ke hoʻopoina i kāna kaikamahine i nā lāʻelua. Manaʻo nā kāne he mea maikaʻi loa kaʻoihana pilau,ʻo ka nui o nā kaikamāhine i moe ma ka moe a me ka helu o nā orgasma. Eia lākou, nā hōʻailona o kēia macho, no ka mea, uaʻikeʻia kēlā wahine kēia wahine i mea e ho'āʻo ai, e hōʻoia i ko lākou hiki. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, uaʻikeʻia nā wāhine e kahi hōʻailona o ko lākouʻano wahine. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, hoʻololi wale,ʻaʻole naʻe. No laila, no laila, ke hopohopo nei mākou i nā kāne.
Hiki ke hoʻomauʻia kēia papa o nā hiʻohiʻona no ka manawa lōʻihi loa, a he mea hikiʻole paha ke hoʻohālikelike i nā manaʻo o nā kāne me nā wāhine. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole mākou e makemake e'ōlelo e ponoʻole nā wāhine i ka moekolohe, a aloha nā kāne. ʻO ka mea pono, pono nā mea a pau, akā ma nā wahi āpau e pono ke ana a me ka māhele o nā manaʻo a me ke aloha. ʻO ka mea,ʻo kēlā me kēia o nā'elepa o ka wahine'ē aʻe eʻike i ke kāne a me ke aloha ma konaʻano pono'ī, akā,ʻaʻole naʻe lākou eʻike i ke aloha me ka moeʻole, akā,ʻo ka wahine wale nō - me ke aloha ole. Aia maanei heʻano koʻikoʻi o ka pilina ma waena o ke kane a me ka wahine. ʻOiai i loko o ko lākouʻikeʻole, hiki i nā wāhine ke hoʻohui pono i kēia mau manaʻoʻelua, e moe mua i ka moekolohe. ʻO kā mākou haʻawina loiloi wale nō i hōʻike mai i ka honua a puni mākou ma kahiʻano'ē aʻe.
I ka'ōleloʻana,ʻo ka hoʻonāʻana i ka wahine ma keʻano he mea hoʻokahi wale nō a iʻole heʻano o ka hoʻokūpaʻaʻana e hoʻonele iā ia i ke kala kala aloha,ʻaʻohe mea "hoʻokahi haneri kenetene" i laweʻia. Akā, akā, i loko o keʻano pilikino, aia kekahi mea e like me "nāʻano pilikino". ʻO nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe,ʻo ka mea i manaʻoʻoleʻia e'āponoʻole no kekahi kanaka, ua manaʻoʻia he kūpono no kekahi. Eia ka wehewehe o kā mākou mau hiʻohiʻona. Akā,ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻopoina i nā wāhine i ke aloha a me ka wahine pono'ī, e like me ka hoʻohuiʻana o nā kino aloha, a me kahi manaʻo e hoʻopiha i nā mea aloha a maikaʻi a hoʻonui i ka hauʻoli piha. No ka manaʻo o ia mau manawa, he mea pono ke ola, ke aloha a me ke komoʻana i loko o ke ahi wela. He mea liʻiliʻi loa kā mākou makemake, nā wāhine mai nā kāne. Loaʻa mākou i ke aloha a me ka mālama, a laila e pili i ka wahine. He mea paʻakikī loa ke koho. Aloha maikaʻi i ke aloha!