He aha ka hana o nā māhoe?
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā sonnics e hōʻike ana i ka hānau me ke olakino a me ka wahine. ʻO nā wāhine moeʻuhane i kēia kiʻi ma kā lākou mau moeʻuhane eʻike lākou i ke aloha a me kaʻike pilina me kā lākou i koho ai. ʻO nā maʻi makeʻole, e loaʻa ka mana ikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika i nā mea hou. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ma hope o kēlā mau moeʻuhane,ʻike koke nā wāhine hoʻokahi i ka hapalua o lākou.
I ka unuhiʻana i kēia moe, he mea nui eʻike i nāʻano o ka mea nāna e moe. Ua hiki i nā kamaliʻi'ōpio keʻike aku i kaʻeha o ka nūhou e kū neiʻo ia. No nā poʻe'ōpio a keu paha, a he mau māhoe ma ka moeʻuhane, e'ōlelo ana i ka pōmaikaʻi i kaʻoihanaʻoihana, ke puka mai o nā kumu waiwai'ē aʻe, a me ka hoʻonuiʻana i ka noho maikaʻi.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, pehea ka hānauʻana. ʻO ka hana kaumaha a me kaʻeha nui e hōʻike ana i loko o ke olaʻana o ke kaikamahine ma ke ala e hiki ai i ka pōmaikaʻi a me ke aloha, he pilikia koʻikoʻi, a laila e ukuʻiaʻo ia. ʻO ka leo ho'ōho i ka wā hānau - hōhewa a'ōlelo hō'āhewa paha. Inā holo mālie nā mea a pau me ka pilikiaʻole, a laila e kali: e holomua ka maikaʻi o kou ola, e holomua kekahi hana, aloha a me kaʻike likeʻana i kaʻohana. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ke koko i ka hānauʻana, he hālāwai kūkā mua loa ia me nāʻohana pili a piliʻole paha iʻikeʻoleʻia no ka manawa lōʻihi.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomanaʻo i nā kūlana i hānau aiʻoe i nā keiki. Ma ka home a iʻole i ka haukapila? No ka nānāʻana ma ka moeʻuhane, ua hōʻikeʻia nā paia o ka home i ke kōkua a me ka kākoʻo o ka pilina o nā pilina a me nā hoaaloha. ʻO ka hale lehulehu kahi hōʻailona o ka hoʻouka houʻana, he lōʻihi lōʻihiʻana mai kaʻohana a me nā hoaaloha.
ʻO ka moe a nā māhoe: he aha ka moekolohe o nā keiki?
Ala aʻelaʻo ia i ka moeʻuhane, uaʻike nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi i ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo e loaʻa koke iāʻoe ka lono maikaʻi loa. ʻO ka meaʻoi loa, e pili ana nā loli maikaʻi i ke kālā a iʻole ka hana. Ināʻoe he koho, e manaʻoʻoe he makana mai iā ia āu i makemake ai no ka manawa lōʻihi.
Inā hoʻohālikeʻoe i ka ho'ākākaʻana o ka hapa nui o nā puke moe, a laila hāpai i ke keikikāne a me ke kaikamahine he mea me ke poʻo e komo i kahi hoʻolimalima hou a iʻoluʻolu paha. Hiki paha iāʻoe keʻike me kekahi kanaka pili aloha a e hoʻolimalima i kou manawa nui me ia.
ʻO ka hānauʻana o nā kaikamāhine he hōʻailona ia i ka hoʻololiʻana o ka mea moeʻuhane, ka hoʻoponopono houʻana i kona mau ola. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ma hope o kēia mau moeʻuhane, e aloha nui nā wāhine, mālama, eʻoi aku ka hoihoi i ka hanaʻana i kahi hauʻoli o ka hale, ma mua o kaʻike ponoʻana i kahiʻoihana.
E like me kāu eʻike ai,ʻo ka moe o ka hānauʻana o nā māhoe ma ka hapanui o nā mea e hōʻike ana i kekahi mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi. Hiki i kēia ke hana i kekahi kaikamahine nona ka naʻau i piha i nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me ke aloha i kāna poʻe i alohaʻia. No laila e huki i nā hopena a me nā loli maikaʻi!