Nā kuleana a me nā kuleana o nā hoaaloha maikaʻi loa

Ke'ōlelo nei lākouʻaʻole he mau hoaaloha, aʻo ka hoaaloha maikaʻi he hoʻokahi a hoʻokahi wale nō. ʻO kēia kanaka ma keʻano like me nā kaikaina a me nā kaikaina. Uaʻikeʻoe i nā mea a pau e pili ana iā ia aʻo ia pū me ia e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hakakā ma nā mea pili. A laila hoʻomaka ka hua'ōlelo: "He aha kāu kuleana e hana ai pēlā?" A "Ponoʻoe e hana pēlā!". Akā, he aha nā kuleana a me nā kuleana e pili ana i nā hoaaloha maikaʻi loa?


Ke hoʻohiki nei au e'ōlelo i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, aʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo wale nō

ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa,ʻaʻole loa e moe. ʻAʻoleʻo ia wale nō ka haʻiʻana aku i kahi hoaaloha no nā mea a pau. ʻO ka mea mua loa,ʻo nā hoaaloha maikaʻi mau e haʻi mau i kaʻoiaʻiʻo ma keʻano o nā hana hewa a me nā hoʻoholoʻana.ʻAe,ʻo ia kaʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi a me kahi hoaaloha. ʻO ka mea pili i nā pilina ma waena o nā hoaaloha. ʻO nā kaikamāhine he mau mea hoʻonāukiuki, no laila,ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke'ōlelo e hana weliweli loaʻo ia, he nani loa kēiaʻaʻahu a hiki i ka manawa e weheʻia ai i loko o kou hale, no ka mea he mea likeʻole ia. Akā,ʻo ka hoaaloha maikaʻi e kamaʻilio mau ana i kēia, no ka mea, ua pono kāna. Uaʻikeʻo ia iāʻoe i ka maikaʻi loa iʻole hiki ke hoʻohewahewaʻia kāna mau'ōlelo, hōʻoiaʻia i mua ona, aiʻole e pāʻani wale paha. ʻAʻole i mālamaʻia ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Ma mua o ka hoʻomakaʻana e noi aku, ua hoʻomauʻo ia i ke kukuli i kāna kaula, no ka mea, uaʻikeʻo ia eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kaʻoiaʻiʻo ma mua o ka wahaheʻeʻana. ʻAʻole wale ka mea maoli loa e ho'āʻo e hōʻemi i kēiaʻano mea, no ka mea, ke hopohopo nei mākou i ka hakakā. Akā, ua manaʻo ka hoaaloha maikaʻi i kāna hana e hāmama i kona mau maka i kahi mea kokoke,ʻoiai inā he hopena ia. Mahalo, i ka pilina, nā kuleana a me nā kuleana e hana mau ana. Loaʻa iā mākou ke kuleana e kamaʻilio aku ai i ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa no kāna mau hewa, no ka mea,ʻo ia ka mea a nā mea aloha maoli e hana ai a ma ka manawa like e pono ai mākou e haʻi i kēiaʻoiaʻiʻo i mea e pale ai i ke kanaka mai kahi hewa'ē aʻe a iʻole ka hoʻoholo paha e hiki ai ke hoʻopōʻino i kona ola.

ʻAʻole e hoʻokuʻu ka hoa,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e noi nui

Loaʻa ka pono o ka hoaaloha maikaʻi e hōʻoleʻole i ka mea a ma ka manawa hoʻokahi e manaʻolana no kaʻike a me ke kākoʻo. ʻAʻole kēia he mea kupanaha, no ka mea, inā e nīnau mākou e pili ana i kekahi kanaka, ua alakaʻiʻia mākou e ka ukiuki maʻamau. Makemake mākou eʻike i ka mea i hanaʻia. Akā, me nā hoaaloha maikaʻi he mea likeʻole nā ​​mea a pau. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he loaʻa ka uku -ʻo kēia ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, akāʻo ka hapa nui o nā mea a pau a mākou eʻike ai no ke kanaka, no konaʻano a me kāna kāne. No laila,ʻaʻole pono nā hoa maikaʻi e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea iʻikeʻia e lākou, a ke manaʻo nei lākou e hoʻomaopopoʻia aʻaeʻia lākou e ka mea a lākou e makemake ai e noho mālie,ʻaʻole ka mea e nīnau ai, a laila e hele aku lākou me ka hua'ōlelo e mahalo. Akā,ʻo ka hoaaloha maikaʻi eʻike i ke ola o kahi mea i alohaʻia. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia keʻike i nā kumu, akā e koho maoli i ka mea i kū i kēia kanaka. A ma iaʻano, pono ka hoa maikaʻi e kākoʻo a hana pono i kahi hoaaloha. Inā makemakeʻo ia e haʻalele a haʻalele iā ia,ʻaʻohe ona kuleana e hoʻopaʻi iā ia no kekahi mea a hāʻawi paha i kāna kōkua. ʻO ka pilina maoli ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i kaʻikeʻole. No laila,ʻo ka hoaaloha pono e hoʻomanaʻo mau i kahi pilikia nui e pono aiʻoe e hana e like me ka mea e pono ai ke hoaaloha, aʻaʻole hoʻi iā ia e hoʻokau iā ia iho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia wale nō kahi kūlana kahi eʻike ai mākou e hiki i ke kanaka ke hana i nā mea lapuwale. I kēia hihia, pono ke koiʻia ka hoaaloha maikaʻi e kāpae, kōkua, ikaika, wehe pololei i ke kanaka ma waho o kēlāʻano moku, i hiki ai i kekahi ke noʻonoʻo pono i nā mea a pau a hoʻomaopopo i ka hopena hoʻokahi,ʻaʻole i pau ka ola.

Ka moa kua hānai a me ka hapalua o ka hapalua

ʻO ka hoa maikaʻi loa ka pono e noi e haʻi aku i kēia hope, a he pono nō hoʻi e hāʻawi iā ia iho. I kēia hihia,ʻo ka nīnau pili i nā kuleana a me nā kuleana i keʻano nui he leo'ē. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ināʻoe e nānā i kekahiʻaoʻao, a laila, pono i nā kānaka a pau ke haʻalele i ka'āina. ʻO ka hoaaloha maikaʻi loa e hele mai a hoʻokuʻu i kāna mau pūʻali a pau mai kona hoa mai, akā, i ka manawa e loaʻa ai iā ia ka manawa kūpono, e hoʻopiha kokeʻo ia i nā mea a pau me ka hoihoi. I ka wā i lōʻihi nā hoaaloha a nui loa, ʻaʻole hiki ke poʻo i kahi mea eʻole e hoʻokaʻawale aiʻole e noi, a inā paha e hiki ke lawe i kekahi mea. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā hoaaloha maikaʻi o ka lā, like nā kuleana a me nā kuleana e like me nā lālā o kaʻohana hoʻokahi. He mea kupanaha ia inā ua noi koʻu kaikuaʻana i koʻu kaikunāne inā e hiki ke laweʻia kekahi mea aʻaʻole paha e pili like me ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā heʻohana maʻamau kēia me nā pilina maʻamau i waena o nā kānaka. Loaʻa ia ma waena o nā hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Hoʻohana wale lākou i nā mea a pau a me ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kā lākou pono a me kā lākou mau waiwai, pono lākou e hana i ka mea e pono ai.

He mea pono e lilo kekahi i kekahi manawa paʻakikī

ʻO kahi hoaaloha maoliʻoe kahi āu e makemake ai i kahi manawa paʻakikī. ʻO kēia mau'ōlelo mai kahi mele a nā keiki heʻoiaʻiʻo maoli. ʻO keʻano o ka lawelaweʻana,ʻo ia ke kuleana i kēlā me kēia manawa e huli aku i kahi hoaaloha me ke kōkua, a ponoʻo ia e kōkua iā mākou. ʻOiaiʻo ia i ka horaʻekolu o ke kakahiaka,ʻo ka hulu hau a hoʻokuʻu ka mahana i nā kanahā, hiki mai ka hoa, ināʻikeʻo ia he meaʻeha loaʻoe aʻino hoʻi,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hana me ia. e hoʻohana i ka lokomaikaʻi o ke kanaka a huki pinepine i kekahi meaʻoi loa. Akā inā he mea nui loa ka hana,ʻike mau mākou i ko mākou hanauna a i ko mākou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. A eia kekahi,ʻaʻole e pane kaʻohana i ka noi e like me keʻano o ka hoaaloha. E like me kā lākou'ōlelo,ʻaʻole mākou i koho i nāʻohana, akā hiki iā mākou ke koho i nā hoaaloha. A inā mākou i wae mua iā ia, a laila, ua kūpono iā mākou ke manaʻo e ola loa maiʻo ia iā ia, a uaʻike mākou inā pono iā ia, e haʻalele mākou i nā mea āpau a holo i ke kōkua. ʻAe, pono mākou e hana i kēia, akāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ināʻikeʻoe i kahi meaʻino e hana nei me kahi mea pili,ʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā kuleana, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e noho mālie a nānā mālie.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he paʻakikī ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kuleana a me nā kuleana o nā hoaaloha, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe maʻalahi ka manaʻo a me ka manaʻo e hoʻomohala i kekahiʻano. Akā, ke kamaʻilio wale nei mākou i ka hana a ke kanaka inā e manaʻoʻo iaʻo ia ke hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Aʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke hele mākou e kōkua, i ka wā e ho'āʻo ai mākou e hana i nā mea a pau no ke kanaka, me ke kū'ēʻole iā mākou iho, i ka manawa o kona mau makemake i kekahi mau manawa iʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe i ko mākou, a i ka manawa likeʻole,ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo i ka mea pono a i ukuʻia -ʻo ia kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli i loko o keʻano maikaʻi. , e pono e mahalo nui akuʻoe ma mua o kekahi mea'ē aʻe.