ʻO keʻano maoli,ʻaeʻia kēia kūlana i kahi pāʻani pāʻani wale nō, i ka manawa pinepine o ka moe kolohe. ʻOiai, he mau hihia i ka wā e pili ana ka wahine i ka wahine, he kāne ke kauā. I kēia kūlana, he keuʻole nā keiki a alohaʻole. Ke huhuli nei lākou, e like me kā lākou makemake, e'ōkō aku i nā kaula a hoʻoikaikaʻia e hana i nā mea a pau e makemake ai ke kaikamahine. ʻO nā wāhine i hoʻololi i kā lākou mau kāne i ke kauā, ua hao wale lākou i nā mea hoʻohilahila e hanaʻia ana i nā mea e pono ai. ʻO ka manawa pinepine,ʻo kēia mau kaikamahine wale nō nā keiki i loko o kaʻohana. Ma lalo o ka hopena o kekahi mau kumu, hoʻopau ko lākou mau mākua i ko lākou ola e puhi ana i nā lepo lepo mai iā lākou,'ōlelo lākouʻo lākou ka mea maikaʻi loa, e hoʻokō i nā kuko a pauʻole. ʻO kēia ke alakaʻiʻia nei i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e lilo nā kaikamāhine i nā wāhine hilahilaʻole eʻike ana aia wale nō ko lākou manaʻo a me ka hewa. I ka manawa pinepine,ʻaʻohe hoa maikaʻi e pili ana iā lākou. Ke hōʻuluʻulu nei lākou i nā kauwā e mahalo iā lākou a hoʻokō i nā kauoha a pau. Inā manaʻo kekahi e wehewehe i ko lākou manaʻo, hoʻomaka kokeʻo ia i nā haʻikena a hoʻokuʻu waleʻia kēia mea mai ka hui aku a iʻole e noʻonoʻo i kahi hoʻopaʻi hala no ia. Hāpai mau kēlā mau wāhine i nāʻohana waiwai, akā, aia kekahi mau hihia i ka nohoʻana o kēlā mau wāhine i nā mākua i loaʻa ka waiwai maikaʻi loa.
He paʻakikī ke haʻi aku i ke kumu e hāʻule ai ke kanaka i ke aloha a no laila e hoʻopaʻa i nā kaikamāhine. Ua hoʻomaopopo loa lākou a pau i ka piliʻana o ka mea pili i ka mea kolohe, akā, ke hoʻomau nei lākou i ka hoʻopiʻi i ko lākou kuko. He mea maikaʻi paha ia, no ka mea, heʻanoʻoluʻolu nā helehelena o kēlā mau kaikamahine. Eia hou, mahalo i ka hana a nā poʻe a pau e pili ana iā lākou, hiki iā lākou ke mālama i ka maikaʻi o ko lākouʻili a me ka lauoho, e hele ai i nā lole loloa, i ka hoʻoikaikaʻana, e hoʻomaha ana i nā'āina'ē, nā lole a me nā mea hana. Inā hana ka wahine,ʻo ia wale nō ka hoʻohanaʻana i nā kālā a pau nona iho. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine,ʻaʻole nā keiki a kēia mau wāhine, a ināʻo ke keiki,ʻaʻohe paha e hopohopo i ka makuahine. Hiki iā ia e like me ka'īlio a he'īlio paha e hiki iāʻoe ke pāʻani, ai ka wā e kani aiʻoe, eʻoki wale i kou mau kuli. I kēlā mauʻohana, hānaiʻia nā keiki e ko lākou makuakāne. ʻO ka mea nui, piliʻo ia i nā pilikia o ka home. He mau home maoli kēia mau kānaka. Hoʻomakaukau lākou i ka meaʻai, holoi i nā kīʻaha, hao, holoi, hoʻomaʻemaʻe, kōkua i nā keiki me nā haʻawina a lawe mai i kā lākou kakahiaka kakahiaka, awakea a me nāʻahaʻaina i kā lākou mau wāhine. A komo ka wahine i loko ona, hoʻopili i nā nūpepa a nānāʻole paha i ka pāʻani. Ke ulu a ka poʻe'ōpio a hoʻomaka i ka hoʻokōʻana i ko lākou kuko mai iā lākou. A inā he kipi ke keiki, hakakā hakakā a me nā mea hōʻeha e hoʻomaka ma ka hale. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo ka wahine e like me ka hikiʻole ke hoʻololi a inā koho kekahi kāne i ka wahine like, e kākauʻo ia i ka hopena o ke kauā.
ʻO keʻano,ʻo ka mea i hōʻikeʻia ma luna nei he mea maikaʻi loa ia. Ua hewa nā pilina a lawe mai i ka pōʻino i nāʻohana a pau o kaʻohana, koe wale no ka haku wahine. Mahalo i nā wāhine, ke ulu nui nei nā keiki (ʻoiai nā keiki kāne). Keʻae nei lākou i ke kūlana o ko lākouʻohana wale nō ka mea e noho nei, a no laila, ke hōʻole loa nei i ke aloha, iʻole e like me ka makua. Eia kekahi, he mea paʻakikī iā lākou keʻike i ke aloha a me ka mālamaʻana o nā wāhine. Ua makaʻala loa lākou no kēia a no ka manawa lōʻihiʻole eʻoluʻoluʻole. He lōʻihi loa ka manawa e kōkua ai i ke kanaka'ōpiopio e manaʻoʻiʻo i ka manaʻo maʻamau i ka honua aʻaʻole nā wāhine a pau e hoʻohana i kā lākou mau kāne. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi poʻeʻaʻole i loko o kaʻuhane aloha a ua mākaukau hoʻi e kōkua iā ia ma nāʻano ola a pau.
Akā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e ola i kahi ola, a laila, hiki i ka makemake e lilo i wahine wahine ke ala mai i kahi wahine wale nō ma keʻanoʻano. I kekahi manawa e makemake ana ka wahine e lanakila. E alakaʻi i kāu'ōpiopio. ʻAʻole i ka manawa wale nō e pili ana i ka BDSM, akāʻo kēia,ʻoiaʻiʻo nō hoʻi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā wāhine he nuiʻole e uku nui ana i nā poʻe no kekahi mauʻano, aia i ka makemake e hoʻomau i ke kāne e kokoke. Hiki paha he mau manaʻo no ka maikaʻi o ke kaulaʻi iā ia me nā kīpihi o ka pakuhi i hikiʻole iā ia ke hele i nā wahi āpau a kokoke loa. ʻOiai,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hōʻino iā ia, e hānai mauʻo ia i nā meaʻono a me ka punahele nui loa, uaʻokiʻokiʻo ia i kona lauoho, ua pale i kona lauoho, ua hoʻonani nani iā ia. Hiki paha, eʻae i kāu kamepiula aloha. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma mua, hiki iā ia ke ālai i kahi mau wahi e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻopili aku i ka honua ma waho a noi i ke kōkua e pakele. I kāna kauwā aloha,ʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻeha,ʻaʻole i hahau aʻaʻoleʻo ia i hōʻino. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻokō i kekahi o kāna mau kuko, ināʻo ia e kokoke ana, noho kokoke i ka pakuhi a haʻaleleʻole iā ia.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia mau manaʻo e pili ana i nā mea hōʻeha, akā, ma keʻano nui,ʻaʻohe meaʻino i loko o lākou ināʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ke kaikamahine e noʻonoʻo pono e pili ana iā ia a hana i nā mea no ka laweʻana. I kēlā mau hihia, ua'ākī ke kumu i nā meaʻino a me nā leʻaleʻa a me ka wahine e pono e hoʻokuʻu i kēlā mau manaʻo a hele i ke kauka no ke kauka kilokilo.
ʻO ka wahine he lede, he kāne ke kauā,ʻo ia kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona punahele o nā pāʻani wahine. ʻO kekahi wahine i kekahi manawa ke makemake neiʻo ia eʻoi aku ka ikaika, e nohoaliʻi a noho aliʻi. I kekahi manawa, he makemake kekahi e hōʻeha i kahi kanaka, no ka mea, i nā palena kūpono. ʻO kēia mau makemake i hōʻikeʻia i ka wā e hāʻawi mai ai ka lede i kekahi kanaka BDSM. Aia maʻaneʻi, nā paʻa lima, nā pihi a me nā mea'ē aʻe e pili ana i ka BDSM e neʻe nei. Akā,ʻo kēia a pau, no ka leʻaleʻa. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole e hōʻeha ka wahine aloha i kona hoa kāne. Akā, hoʻopiliʻo ia i ka hoʻopaʻi me kaʻoluʻolu. Malia paha ma kēiaʻano keʻaʻa nei mākou i kā mākou mau kāne kāne, i kekahi manawa e hoʻopaʻi a hoʻopaʻi i kā mākou mau kāne aloha i kahi no ka hewa a me ka nānāʻole iā mākou.