ʻO ka nane moe. He aha ka mea e moe ai ke kaikamahine?

I ka moeʻuhane,ʻikeʻo kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio iā ia iho, he aha kēia moe e kamaʻilio nei?
ʻOiai, he wahine'ōpiopio e pili ana me ka māmā a me ke aloha. Ināʻole, he hikiʻole i ka ola a me kaʻohana, hiki i ka hale e like me ka meaʻole a me ka maʻaʻole. ʻO ka wahine'ōpio he hōʻailona o ka hoʻomaka a me ke kumu o kahi kanaka hou. Akā,ʻo ka ho'ākākaʻana i kēia kiʻi like me nā mea unuhiʻokoʻa o ka moeʻuhane? He aha ka mea a lākou i hoʻohiki ai i ka mea nāna e moe nei ka hihiʻo i moe ai ke kaikamahine? E pane ana kēiaʻatikala i kāu mau nīnau. E aʻo anaʻoe i ka mea e manaʻoʻia mai ka hopena ma hope o kēlā mau moeʻuhane, a pehea e kū ai kaʻike kūpono.

No ke aha i hiamoe ai kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio'ōpiopio?

ʻO kēia moe e hōʻike ana i ka hiki kokeʻana o ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane no ka maikaʻi e hiki mai ana, e hoʻokōʻia nā kumumanaʻo i hāpaiʻia, e hoʻopau ponoʻia kaʻoihana i hoʻomakaʻia. ʻO ka hoʻohaunaeleʻana o nā maʻi e hāʻule ana,ʻo ke aloha a me kaʻike likeʻana e noho aliʻi ma kaʻohana, e hauʻoli nā keiki i kā lākou hana. ʻO nā kamaliʻi'ōpiopio e like me ia mau'ōlelo hoʻohiki e hoʻolaha i ka hāʻawi wikiwikiʻana o ka lima a me ka puʻuwai a iʻole ka hānauʻana e pili ana. No nā kāne - he hōʻailona kūpono kēia e lōʻihi nei kou manawa a me ka mahaloʻole i ke aloha. Malia paha he pāʻina kūpono no kēia. Paipai mākou e nānā pili loa i kēia hōʻailona. ʻO nā poʻeʻelemakule eʻike i kēia moeʻuhane inā i ka wā e hiki mai ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana ka noho lōʻihi a hoʻomaha. Eia hou, i ka wā e hiki mai ana, hiki ke hele i kahi kūpono o ka nohoʻana.

ʻO ke kaikamahine'ōlohelohe he hōʻailona ia o kahi mea aloha a iʻole ka hoʻohūʻana i ka wahine. ʻO kekahi mau moe moe e ho'ākāka i kēia mea he meaʻike mua i ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana aiʻole i ka hānauʻana paha o kahi keiki. ʻIke ke kanaka i nā moeʻuhane e like me keʻano o kona kipakuʻana i ke aloha ma o kāna mau hana. Malia paha he hōʻailonaʻike kēia i ka hana.

Inā hele mai ke kaikamahine iāʻoe i ke kaumaha a uēʻana paha, a laila, mālamaʻia nā puke moe e like me ka lono maikaʻiʻole a me nā maʻiʻili. Inā moeʻoe i kēlā moeʻuhane i ka pō mai ka Lāpule a hiki i ka Pōʻakahi,ʻo ia hoʻi he meaʻole.

Inā he moeʻuhane maʻi maʻi

ʻAʻohe o ka moekolohe, ma loko o nā puke moe, he kanaka maʻi ka hōʻailona o ka hakakā, ka emiʻana o ke kālā a me ka maikaʻi o ke ola o ka mea moe. No nā wāhine, ua hōʻike kēia moe i ka kuhihewa me ka poʻe i alohaʻia, kahi kuhihewa a haʻiʻole paha. Inā he mea like kēia me ka mea e moe ai kekahi kanaka, a laila e manaʻoʻo ia i nā pilikia pili kālā a me nā kūkākūkā me nā pilina. Inā e nānā ana ke kama'āina o ke kaikamahine, a laila, ua pilikia loaʻo ia i kāu mau'ōlelo a me kāu mau hana. Hiki maikaʻi keʻikeʻoe i ke ola maoli a kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia kumuhana. ʻO ka maikaʻi kūpono e noʻonoʻo ināʻo ka moe i ka pō mai ka Pōʻakā a ka Pōʻalima. I loko o kēia manawa,ʻo ko mākou mau hiʻona a me ko mākou mau manaʻo he ikaika ikaika. No laila, iʻole e loaʻa kahi pilikia - ke'ōlelo aku nei mākou e haʻi aku i ka holoʻana o ka wai o kāu mīkini.

ʻO ka wahine make, e like me ka ho'ākākaʻana ma mua,ʻo ia hoʻi ka hoʻohaunaele ma nā wahi a pau o ke ola, i ka hōʻehaʻana i nā maʻi mau. Malia paha i ka lono maikaʻi i pili iāʻoe a me kouʻohana. Kūpono mākou e hoʻoponopono pono i kou wahi, inā paha, he mau hana koloheʻoleʻoe. Inā i loko o kou manaʻo ua moeʻoe i ka moeʻuhane me ka wānanaʻino, a laila aia kekahi ala maikaʻi loa e pale ai i kona hoʻokomoʻana i ka mea maoli. Ponoʻoe e hele i ka halepule a haʻi i ka hōʻailona ma mua o ka'ōkuhi āu i moe ai. He mea nuiʻole ia ma mua o ka hiamoeʻana i kēlā me kēia pō e holoi i ka wai hemolele. Na kēia mauʻano e mālama iāʻoe mai kaʻino a me ka ikaikaʻole.

E like me kāu eʻike ai, ua unuhi nā moe moe i nā kūlanaʻano likeʻole. Ke ho'ākāka 'ana ma ke kumuhana, inā nui ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikamahine, hāʻawi' ia ka mea nui loa ma kēia puke. Ke makemake nei mākou e hana pono wale nā ​​mea maikaʻi a hauʻoli!