Ua like nā kānaka me nā ū liʻiliʻi?

Makemake nā kaikamahine a pau e makemake i nā kāne. Akā, ua hoʻokau pinepineʻia nā nūpepa telepuni a me nāʻenehana i nā paepae maʻalahiʻole o ka nani. ʻO ka ulu, ke kaumaha, keʻano o nā maka a me nā lehelehe, nā'āpana o ke kino - ua kūkuluʻia kēia mea a pau i loko o kaʻekalesia. Keʻikeʻia inā ināʻaʻole he 180 aʻoi aʻe o ke kiʻekiʻe, nui ka nui o 90/60/90 - ua hala ke ola. ʻO kekahi o nā pūʻulu makamae nui ka nui o ka umauma. ʻAʻole kēia he mea kupaianaha: inā hiki ke "hūnāʻia" kekahi wahi liʻiliʻi me nā heʻe kuʻekuʻe wāwae, me ke kōkua o ka hanaʻana e huli i kahi kaikamahine maikaʻi loa i ka nani,ʻaʻole loa e hiki ke hana i ka umauma. Nui nā kaikamāhine e hopohopo nei no kēia, hana kekahi e hana i ke kuhi. Akā maanei, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā hopena o ka hopena (hiki i ke kāpili hōʻailona umauma)ʻaʻole hiki ke hana inā he kino kou,ʻoiai inā he maikaʻi. Ma hope o kona hoʻoneʻeʻiaʻana,ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i kēlā mau hana. ʻO ka hōʻeha me kā lākou mauʻano e hoʻopuka i nā ola o nā kaikamāhine he nui. Akāʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, pono ke nānāʻia: akāʻo nā kānaka e like me ka umauma liʻiliʻi? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, na lākou e hoʻolālā ai i nā hana e like me ke kuʻiʻana a me nā kuʻekuʻe, a hoʻoholo kekahi i ka hana. No laila,ʻaʻole paha e pono ke hana i nā mōhai? A iʻole eʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi o kaʻaeʻana iāʻoe iho i keʻano āu e hele nei, a hoʻohemo i ka pāʻani e pili ana i ka umauma liʻiliʻi?

I ka manawa o, he meaʻoluʻolu paha ka umauma liʻiliʻiʻoleʻole, ua nui nā helu koho. A ma muli o ka hopena, ua hoʻomaopopoʻia,ʻaʻole nui nā kānaka i ka nui o kou mau umauma -ʻo ka mua aʻo ke ono. ʻO ka mea nuiʻo ka hilinaʻi pono'ī iā ia iho, ka hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iāʻoe iho. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia wale nō e pili i ke kanaka, akāʻo ka nui o nā kānaka e manaʻo nei he nani loa ka pahu liʻiliʻi. Wahi a kekahi poʻe he mea nui ka mea nui,ʻaʻole nui. A pinepine i nā kānaka e'ōlelo hou aku i nā'ōlelo a Tolstoy, ka mea i'ōlelo i ka umauma -ʻo ia ka mea i kū i ka poho o kou lima. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe pilikia - nā kānaka e like me nā ū o ka nui,ʻo ka mea nui - he nani, me kaʻole o nā kaha. Aʻo ka nui ka meaʻono.

Eia hou, makemake wau e'ōlelo i kekahi mau hua'ōlelo e pili ana i ka umauma lima. No ka hopena o nā manaʻo koho hoʻokahi, ua hōʻikeʻia, ma ka kū'ē i ka manaʻo nui, nā kāne e like me ka umauma ma mua o nā mea kanu. Nui nā mea i makemake i kā lākou kaikamahine e loaʻa i ka umauma lima o ke ono a nui aʻe paha. ʻO nā kānaka e like me ka'ōlohelohe a me nā umauma maoli -ʻo nā mea liʻiliʻi paha. 'Ōlelo lākou i ka pale o ka umauma lima i ka pāʻana,ʻoiai makemakeʻole kekahi e hoʻopā aku - no ka pono wale nō. Akā inā ponoʻoe e koho i waena o kahi umauma'ōmaʻomaʻo a me kahi mea hana nui, koho nā kānaka i ka koho mua.

ʻO nā waiū e like me keʻano

Eia kekahi, mai poina i nā umauma nui e lilo i mea pōpilikia i ke kaikamahine. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hiamoe i kou'ōpū,ʻaʻole e lele no ka hauʻoli,ʻaʻole hele hou e hele. ʻO ka pāʻaniʻana i nā haʻuki he pilikia nui. Eia hou, ua manaʻoʻiaʻo ka nui o ka umauma,ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o ka waiū ma loko. ʻO ka mea nona nā'ōpē liʻiliʻi he nui loa nā pilikia me ka hānaiʻana. ʻO kēia kekahi kumu e aloha ai iāʻoe iho no ka mea āu. He mea maʻalahi ka poʻe nona nā umauma liʻiliʻi: hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai me kaʻikeʻole i kekahi mau mea maikaʻiʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke hana me ka paleʻole i ke kauwela, kahi mea maʻalahi.

ʻO ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia keʻano o kouʻano. ʻAʻohe kanaka e noho me kahi kaikamahine no ka nui o kona umauma, keʻoleʻo ia e makemake wale i ka moekolohe. Akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hui pū me kēia kanaka,ʻoʻoe? No laila, e ho'āʻoʻoe e lilo i kanaka hoihoi, noʻonoʻo,ʻano aloha a aloha. E heluhelu i nā puke akamai, e hoʻolālā e like me ke kanaka, e huli i kahi hana no kāu makemake. E aʻo i kahi mea hou aʻoluʻolu, e hoʻonāukiuki iāʻoe i ka nui o nāʻelele o kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe ma mua o ka pīhoihoi ulu. A e hui akuʻoe i kahi kanaka e aloha iāʻoe a mahalo i kouʻano pilina o kaʻUhane,ʻaʻole wale i kou mau waiū. A i loko o ke kaikamahine aloha he mea maikaʻi nā mea a pau, no laila,ʻaʻole e hopohopo hou nā kāne e like me ke kaikamahine.

No laila,ʻo ka mea nuiʻo ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho,ʻaʻole ka nui o ka umauma. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ponoʻoe e nānā iāʻoe iho, mālama i kou kino, e pāʻani i nā haʻuki - keʻano nui, e hoʻomalu iāʻoe i keʻano maikaʻi. Akā, inā heʻuʻuku kou mau umauma,ʻaʻole kēia he kumu no kahi hou hou. Pono pono e hoʻokuʻu i nā pilikia. Ināʻoluʻoluʻoleʻoe iāʻoe iho,ʻaʻole e hiki i kēia hopena ke mālama i nā loleʻaʻahu a iʻole ka hana kūpono. ʻO kaʻikeʻole i loko o kou iho,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopiliʻia, a me ke ono paha o nā umauma,ʻaʻole e nānā maikaʻi ke kaikamahine. Inā hui pū ke kaikamahine i nāʻano like me ka lokomaikaʻi, ka maikaʻi, ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi, a me ka hauʻoli o ka wahine a me ka leʻaleʻa i ka ola -ʻaʻole ia he nui ka nui o kona mau waiū. ʻO ke kaikamahine e alohaʻia no kona mauʻano pilikino, a ma muli o kēiaʻano, he mea maikaʻi loa ia ma ka honua nei.