Eia nā kumu kūpono no ka nānāʻana i kēia mau keʻena. ʻO ka hapanui o ka poʻe'ōpio, aʻo nā kāne pū kekahi, e hele aku e hālāwai me ke kaikamahine a wahine paha a iʻole eʻimi wale aku ai i nā hoaaloha. Akā no ke aha i hele mai ai nā kaikamāhine - uaʻoi aʻe ka paʻakikī. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea kupanaha, akāʻo ka hapanui o nā malihini kipa he mau kaikamahine.
No laila, e hoʻomaka kākou e hoʻomaopopo. ʻO ka mea mua loa,ʻo ka hapa nui o nā kaikamāhine e hele nei i kēia mau keʻena,ʻo lākou wale nō, a hiki i kekahi keʻike pono i ko lākou pahuhopu nuiʻo kaʻimiʻana i kekahi hoa noho a hoa paha. Akā, no ka lōʻihi aʻaʻole paha,ʻo kēlā mea kēia mea maʻaneʻi. Ua maʻalahi ka maʻalahi o kekahi kanaka no ka ahiahi, hiki i kekahi ke lawa i ka pō hoʻokahiʻaʻole i hoʻohana waleʻia, akā makemake kekahi i ka pili lōʻihi. ʻOiai he nui nā kaikamāhine eʻike i nāʻaina awakea eʻike ai i kahi kanaka (a kanaka paha) no ka pili mau a me ka pilipaʻa he pilikia loa,ʻaʻohe paha kahi kūpono, akā, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, manaʻo hope ka hope. ʻO kekahi poʻe e noʻonoʻo nei, a ma ka liʻiliʻi e loaʻa iaʻu ka laki, aʻo koʻu pilikino pili wale nō ka mea hoʻokahi wale nō aʻu i kali ai i koʻu ola.
ʻO ka lua, aia kekahiʻano o nā kaikamāhine e hele mai i nā pāʻani e hōʻike iā lākou iho. Keʻimi nei i kekahi hoa hana i ka hope, a ma mua nei he pāpale "I". ʻOiai,ʻo ia mau kaikamahine eʻaʻahu nani ana, aʻaʻole he mea hoʻonāukiuki kēia. Eʻike ana nā kaikamāhine i ka manawa e hōʻike iā ia iho, pehea kona manaʻo. I nā hua'ōlelo'ē aʻe, makemake wale lākou eʻoliʻoli i ko lākou manaʻo pono'ī a iʻole e hoʻokau. ʻOiai,ʻoiai, he mau manaʻo'ē aʻe kekahi,ʻaʻole iʻike kekahi i nā mea maʻalahi a pau iki i ka lāʻau me kaʻaʻahu a i nā lole paha, e hoʻonāukiuki i nā mea i makemakeʻoleʻia. ʻO ka hapanui pinepineʻana o kēia mau kaikamāhine i ka hui o nā hoaaloha a ho'āʻo kēlā mea kēia mea e hōʻike i ka mea iʻoi aku ma mua o ka hoʻomaha. Nui nā manaʻo (me nā kaikamāhine)ʻaʻoleʻaʻohe hoa wahine. Loaʻa i kahi loiloi lōʻihi a iʻole ka papa hana hōʻailona.
ʻO ke kolu, aia kahi'ōpana liʻiliʻi o nā kaikamāhine e hele i nāʻahaʻaina pōuliuli, e hoʻolimalima wale i ka manawa me nā hoaaloha (ʻoiai he mau mea maʻamau kēia, akā aia naʻe ma laila). ʻO ka hapanui pinepine o kā lākou mau pahuhopu nui ke hula, ka hoʻonāukiukiʻana mai ka hana a me nā pilikia, a me ka loaʻaʻole o ka leʻaleʻaʻole e pili ana i ka loaʻaʻana o kahi hoaaloha a hoʻokomo paha i "I" no ka hōʻike.
ʻOiai, aia kekahi poʻe, e'ōlelo kākou,ʻaʻole wale lākou a iʻole he pili mau loa aʻaʻole i mare. Hāpai lākou i nā hui me kā lākou mau kāne a mau kāne paha. Akā ... hiki ke hana ma waho o lākou. Inā heleʻole lākou i ko lākou mau hoa, pono lākou e hoʻohui me kahi hoaaloha piliʻole a iʻole paha, ma muli o ka hakakā (iʻoi pinepine) aiʻole no kekahi kumu'ē aʻe.
ʻO keʻano maoli,ʻo kēia puʻunaue o nā kaikamāhine he hiʻohiʻona a me ka paʻakikī. He kanaka nui loa nā kānaka, aʻoi aku ka nui,ʻo ka hapalua wahine o ka lehulehu o ka honua, eia kekahi,ʻo nā kaikamāhine he mea kūponoʻole a me kaʻikeʻole. I kekahi manawaʻikeʻole lākou i kā lākou makemake aʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke wānana i kā lākou hana. A no ka hoʻohui 'ana iā lākou i kekahi mau kāwai, he paʻakikī. ʻO kēlā me kēia kaikamahine (wahine) he kūʻokoʻa a he ponoʻole, ma lalo o hoʻokahi o kāna hana e hikiʻole ke hūnā i ka mea iʻikeʻia ma luna. Eia kekahi, he hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o kēia a iʻole kēlā hana i kahi mea make (aʻoi aku i nā mea iʻoi aku i ke kanaka).