ʻO ke aloha a me ka lili pinepine e kau i kahi papa, a heʻoiaʻiʻo kēia:ʻo ka hae ma luna o ke aloha -ʻo ia wale nō keʻano lili e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hōʻike i ke kuleana a me ka inaina o ka mea aloha. Ma kēiaʻatikala, e nānā kākou i keʻano o nā wāhine e pili ana i ka huā a me kā lākou hanaʻana i ia mea.
ʻO ka lili he mea hōʻino. Ua mālamaʻia wau
Ua hopohopoʻoe e lilo i ka nānā aku i nā mea'ē aʻe aʻaʻole ikaika kou liliʻana, akā, he kikowaena. Ke hana ikaika nei kaʻu kāne i nā manawa a pau, "ʻaʻoleʻoe e helu", nā kuko'ōpiopio i kahi hoaaloha, a "haʻalele iāʻoe". Aia kekahi manaʻo hoʻohilahila iāʻoe eʻoi aku ka waiwai o ka lolouila a me kahi puke no kahi mea aloha iāʻoe, no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e puka mai. ʻO ka hōʻailona pili pono e kalaʻoe i ka maʻalahi, me ka wikiwiki loa - inā ma hope o ka mihiʻana, hoʻohikiʻoe "ʻaʻole hou, no ka mea -ʻoʻoe ka mea maikaʻi!" A e hāʻawi iāʻoe i ka nānā a mālama.
E like me ka hōʻike . He mea hōʻino i ka mea lili: "Kani hiki iaʻu ke mahalo, mahaloʻole, aʻaʻole e pili i kaʻu mau mea i makemake ai?" Ma waho,ʻaʻole pahaʻoe e manaʻo nui i ka manaʻo. Akā, i loko o ke kau, pinepineʻoe i ka uila i ka uila o ka inaina.
Ma mua o ka pōʻino . ʻO nā hakakā nui me nā mea e pili ana. Inā e hāʻawiʻoe i kēlā ukiuki i ka makemake,ʻo ka piliʻana o nā hoahānau,ʻaʻole wale nō ma keʻano, akā, no ka poʻeʻike.
Pehea e hemo . E wehewehe iāʻoe iho i ke kumu o ka hana a kekahi mea, e hōʻole ana i ka "manaʻoʻo ia e haʻalele iāʻoe." A e loaʻa iāʻoe kaʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka lili ma keʻano he mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai. E aloha wale mai nā kānaka iaʻu
Makemake kekahi i ka hoʻonui pinepine i ko lākou waiwai. A he mea kaumaha no lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻoikaikaʻana o kekahi poʻe'ē aʻe. ʻO ka wahine o iaʻano ke lili ke hana a kāna kāne me nā wāhine'ē aʻe. He liliʻo ia i kahi mea aloha i mua i kona mau hoaaloha hou,ʻoiai ua hauʻoliʻo ia ma ka mareʻana. Makemakeʻo ia i kahi mea aloha e lōʻihi iā ia no ka manawa pauʻole. Ke lili neiʻo ia i nā puʻuwai i nā hoahana, ka mea kūʻai kūʻai - i ka poʻe kūʻai.
E like me ka hōʻike . ʻO ke kaumaha: "Ua hoʻololiʻia wau heʻino!", Ka hoʻoluhi hewa a me ka halaʻole. ʻO ka manawa pinepine kēlā wahine eʻimi ana e lilo i mea kūpono. Ua laweʻia kekahi e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kekahi.
Ma mua o ka pōʻino . Makeʻoe iāʻoe iho he pahuhopu maʻamau: i mea e hemolele ai. I kekahi manawa e hoʻohaunaha i ka pilina me nā mea'ē aʻe no ka ho'āʻoʻana e hōʻino iā lākou a pau.
Pehea e hemo . He mea pono e hoʻomaopopo i ka heleʻana mai o nā wāhine nani, nā kāne e haʻalele, hoʻolahaʻia ka maikaʻi. No ka mālamaʻana i kahi mea e hiki ai i kahi wale nō keʻokoʻa. Inā noho kāu kāne meʻoe, a laila alohaʻo ia iāʻoe. A peheaʻoe e maikaʻi ai no ka mea kālepa ma ka supermarket ...ʻAʻoleʻoe e mālama?
ʻO lili o ka mea nāna ia. Kaʻu! ʻAʻole au e hāʻawi.
He lili wale nōʻoe no nā mea pili iāʻoe - ke kāne, nā keiki, a me nā mākua - i nā poʻe e hele aʻe ma'ō aku o kēia pōʻai. Eia kekahi lā,ʻo ke kāne - i ka makuahōnōwai a me nā keiki - i nā hoaaloha. He hohonu a he kaumaha kou lili. ʻO ka lili e hana, e aʻo aiʻole i ka lolopiulaʻoeʻikeʻole. Ua maopopo iāʻoeʻaʻole e laweʻia ka hana a kāu kāne, aʻo ia nō ke kāpena'ōpio hou. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, he liliʻoe i nā mea i hala, he paʻakikī iāʻoe ke kala aku i ke kipi kipi a me ke aka o ka "ʻekolu poʻokela" he lōʻihi ma kou moena.
E like me ka hōʻike . Nā huhū a me nā'ōlelo hōʻeha. Uaʻikeʻo Tysama i kēia meʻoe, a uaʻikea e nā mea'ē aʻe.
Ma mua o ka pōʻino . ʻAkahi: ma ka huhū o ka hana nui hiki iāʻoe ke haʻi, a laila, eʻae akuʻoe e kala aku, e kala i ka mihi. ʻO ka lua:ʻo nā hoʻopiʻi ponoʻole a me nā koi e noho wale meʻoe e hoʻoikaika pinepineʻia e ka hoa o ka poʻe kiki.
Pehea e hemo . Ponoʻoe e hōʻoia iāʻoe iho a me nā poʻe'ē aʻe: "ʻAe, ke lili nei au!" Ke hōʻike nei mākou ma kekahiʻano,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mālamaʻana i kēia. He mea pono e hoʻokaʻawale i nā mea i kūpono iāʻoe e lili - ke kāne mai nā keiki hou a me nāʻohana'ē aʻe.
ʻO ka lili hilahila. E hōʻike mai iaʻu i kou aloha
Ke lohi mau neiʻoe i ka mea nui loa iāʻoe, he kanaka aloha loa, he nuiʻole - he keiki a makuahine paha, i kekahi manawa he alakaʻi, he haku. ʻAʻoleʻoe e manaʻo he mea nuiʻoe iā ia, aʻo ka manawa a pau e manaʻo aiʻoe iā ia ke pāʻani neiʻo ia i ke aloha, a hoʻohanaʻo ia iāʻoe no kona pono pono'ī, hoʻopunipuni a hoʻopunipuni. Aʻo kēlā me kēia lekaleʻa o kona wahi pono'ī e hoʻoikaika i kou mau manaʻo hilahila.
E like me ka hōʻike . Noho mālie a no ka manawa lōʻihi, e hōʻike ana i keʻano o ka huhū, ke kānalua: "A no ke ahaʻo ia e mahalo nui ai? Ua loli? ", A me ka noi:" Hōʻoia i kou aloha! "ʻO ka hopena o ka hopena me keʻano hoʻonani e like me ka paulele.
Ma mua o ka pōʻino . ʻO ka koi mau o ka hōʻike nui o ke aloha mai kāna kāne ("Mai kamaʻilio me kāu mau hoaaloha", "e hoʻolei i kāu mau loleʻaʻahu"), mai kāu keiki ("Mai hele i kahi kulanui'ē aʻe") ua hoʻopiʻiʻia mai kēlā wahine mua a me ka lua.
Pehea e haʻalele ai . ʻAʻole hiki ke maʻalahi ka hana. Hiki ke kōkua i ka mana piha i nā mea a pehea e'ōlelo ai. A he hoʻomanaʻo mau iāʻoe no ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻonāukiuki aku i kekahi me ka hilinaʻiʻole a nalowale loa.