ʻAe, uaʻike nā mea a pau he poʻeʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kānaka iʻole e hōʻike mau i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. Hāʻalo lākou i ko lākou aloha no ka hua i papaʻia me kaʻoi aku o nā mālie ma mua o nā wāhine. No laila, he nui nā kaikamāhineʻaʻole hiki ke kōkua e noʻonoʻo inā makemake paha nā poʻe i ke aloha. Aʻo kaʻoi aku,ʻo ke kanaka ke aloha i kekahi wahine i kona ola a pau
ʻO ke aloha kahi manaʻo e mālama pono loa nāʻuhane a me nā naʻau. ʻO ia mau poʻe e'ōlelo neiʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi aloha, he maʻi naʻauʻole paha ia, he mea aloha paha a iʻoleʻo ia i aloha. ʻO ka mea wale nō,ʻaʻole iʻoluʻoluʻole ka hanaʻole o ko lākou aloha, a keʻimi nei ke kanaka e hūnā i nāʻano a pau mai kēia manaʻo mai a hūnā i kona mau manaʻo maoli iʻole eʻeha hou.
He aloha mau loa anei? Ua'ōleloʻia aia ma ka honua nei he mau kānaka lokahi kahi noho i ko lākou ola a pau no ka pono o hoʻokahi kanaka. A iwaena o lakou aole he wahine wale no, aka, he mau kanaka. ʻO nā poʻe me ke kaumaha nui eʻike ana i ka haʻihaʻi a me ke alohaʻole. Hiki iā lākou ke noho hoʻokahi no nā makahiki, e noʻonoʻo pinepine ana i kā lākou mea aloha, e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻihoʻi a lanakila paha iā ia. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo iaʻanoʻano pilikino,ʻaʻoleʻo ia kekahi, akā, heʻano liʻiliʻi. ʻO nā kiʻi wale nō i ka pilikia e hiki ke nānā aku me ka hoʻokūʻole a me ka mahalo i ke kūpaʻa o ke aloha, i ka manawa e loaʻa ai i kekahi kanaka kēia mea. Akā inā loaʻa nā mea a pau i ke ola maoli,ʻaʻole lawa ka aloha. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea weliweli eʻike i ka hopenaʻana a me ka lukuʻana o kekahi hoaaloha no kāna mea alohaʻole. Inā haʻalele ka mea i kahi manawa, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaka wale i ka pilikia me ka psyche. ʻO ia ke kumu e hiki ai iā mākou ke'ōlelo he aloha mau loa ko ke kanaka i ko lākou ola a pau, akā, mai kēlā aloha iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ke kōkua iā lākou e hoʻokuʻu aku, no ka mea ināʻaʻole i hanaʻia, hiki ke hoʻoemi pōkole loaʻia ke ola. ʻAʻole ia wale nō e pili ana i ka pepehi kanaka. Ma muli o ke kaumaha a me ka hopena a me ka hopena, loaʻa ka hopena maikaʻi loa o ka'ōnaehana cardiovascular a psyche. No laila, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake i kahi kanaka e kokoke ana iāʻoe e make i kahi maʻi kīhaʻi a iʻole i loko o kahi hōʻailona psychiatric,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hōʻoiaʻana iā ia e hele ana ke aloha, nā ala pololei a me ka pololeiʻole, e hoʻi hou, a ponoʻoe e kāohi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he meaʻeha ia a he paʻakikī iā ia, akā me ka kōkuaʻole o kekahi mea, e lilo ana ia mau manaʻo i loko o ka pōʻino weliweli e hoʻonāukiuki ana, e hoʻopiʻi a luku wale i kahi kanaka. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka aloha mau loa, akā, ua loli. A ināʻaʻole kahi kanaka i hoʻoponopono i kahi mea, a laila, hiki iā ia keʻimi i kahiʻano hōʻoia o ke aloha. Akā, no kēia mea he mea pono e nānā a puni. Aʻaʻole makemake ka poʻe aloha i ka hanaʻole i kēia, a no laila ua pilikia lākou i ko lākou aloha i nā makahiki he nui.
Akā,ʻo ka mea pono,ʻaʻole pono nā kānaka a pau eʻeha i ka alohaʻole. He aloha anei ko ke ola? Hiki i ke kāne ke noho me kona lede o ka puʻuwai wale nō aʻaʻole e hoʻolohe i nā mea'ē aʻe?
ʻAe, hiki i kēia, akā, ma iaʻano, he nui ka nui o nā wāhine. Hiki i nā wāhine ke pepehi i ke aloha i ko lākou mau kāne. Akā, heʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka peheaʻole mākou e haʻalele i kēia mau kumu. ʻO nā mea hōʻeuʻeu, nā'ōlelo hōʻeha a me nā pāpā, nā manaʻo hilinaʻi a me ka lili, ka nele i ka makemake i ka wahine a me nā kumuhana'ē aʻe he nui ka mea e hōʻinoʻia ai ka poʻe e aloha nei. I loko o nā makahiki, hoʻonuiʻia ka hopena a hiki i ka aloha ke hele aku i ka wā e nalowale ana nā pono a me kaʻike.
Akā, inā hiki i nā wāhine a me nā kāne ke naʻauao, e hoʻoponopono a hoʻomaopopo i kekahi i kekahi, i kēia manawa e aloha maoli ke kāne i kāna wahine i kona ola a pau. A laila,ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio ana no ka makemake o ka makemake e loaʻa ana i waena o nā pai i nā makahiki mua. ʻAʻole ia he mea huna i ka hala o ka manawa, akā, aia kekahi mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka pilikino, kākoʻo, ka hilinaʻiʻana i kekahi i kekahi, aloha. ʻO ke aloha keʻano, akā mai keʻano o ka hoʻololiʻana i konaʻano,ʻaʻole e loli ke koina. Hoʻohenehene kekahi i ke aloha, ke aloha a me ke aloha, no laila, ua maopopo iā lākou ke aloha. ʻAe,ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻoiai ke aloha maoli i kahiʻano kiʻekiʻe,ʻaʻole e hiki i nā kāne a pau ke komo i kahi. E hoʻomaopopo, no ka mea, ma waena o nāʻelemakule i noho pū me nā makahiki he kanalima i hala,ʻaʻohe makemake, akā, pehea e kākoʻo ai kekahi i kekahi, pehea lākou eʻapo ai, pehea lākou e hele ai ma ka lima i ka papaʻauʻau, nā manaʻo a pau i hānauʻia i kekahi manawa i loko o ka'ōpiopio i ke kuko. A ma hope iho - lilo i launa aloha a aloha, a ua lilo i mea lilo loa i ko lākou mauʻuhane. ʻAʻole i manaʻo nā kānaka i ka wā ma mua iʻole lākou e hui. ʻAʻole lākou i maopopo he meaʻole kēia. ʻO kaʻikeʻana o kekahi i kekahi ma keʻano he hapa oʻoe iho he hōʻailona o ke aloha e hikiʻole ke uhaki a lukuʻia.
ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, kokoke i kēlā me kēia kanaka ke aloha i hoʻokahi wahine i kona ola a pau. Akā,ʻaʻole lākou e hui me kēlā mau kaikamāhine e hiki ke aloha a mau loa aku. ʻO ka pōʻino,ʻaʻole nā kāne a pau ka hapalua o ka hapalua o kēlā me kēia. I kekahi manawa, hana hewa nā kānaka, akā,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou keʻae i kā lākou kuhihewa, no laila, ma muli o ka hopena,ʻeha lākou e pili ana i kekahi me kekahi.
He kanaka hiki ke aloha i kekahi wahine i kona ola a pau? I kēia nīnau, hāʻawi nā mea a pau i kā lākou pane pono'ī, e hilinaʻi ana i kaʻike a me nā kūlana i loaʻa iā ia ma ke ola. Akā,ʻo nā kānaka iʻike i ko lākou aloha maoli, e'ōlelo lākouʻaʻole e nalowale nā manaʻo i ka manawa, akā e hoʻololi wale i kā lākouʻano a ulu a lilo i mea me ka neleʻole o ko lākou ola. Hiki i nā kānaka a pau ke aloha aʻaʻole ia e hilinaʻiʻia inā he kāneʻoe a he wahine paha. ʻO ka nīnau wale nō. Aia he poʻe ma ke ala o ke ola e kūpono i ko kākou aloha. Inā pēlā, a laila i loaʻa i kekahi kanaka nā manaʻo āna e lawe ai i ka lā hope loa o kona ola.