No ke aha e hiki ai i ka moeʻuhane like?
ʻO kēia moʻolelo e mālamaʻia me ka pololei a me keʻano. Inā ma ka ola maoli e honi ka ihu i ka pāpālinaʻaʻole e hōʻike i kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona kūʻokoʻa aʻaʻole pono e hopohopo i ke kuleana o ka mea a ke kanaka, a laila, ua wehewehe keʻano moe i keʻano o kēlā moeʻuhane. I kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua manaʻoʻoe i ka mea nāna i honi iāʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane a no laila keʻano hana nei kou mau manaʻo me ka pehea e hōʻike ai i kou mahalo iā ia.
Inā e honiʻoe i kou papalina iāʻoe iho, e'ōlelo ana ka puke moe e ho'āʻo anaʻoe e hōʻike i kouʻano aloha a me ke aloha no kekahi kanaka. Ma ka liʻuliʻu e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa kūpono, no ka mea, nui loa ka manawa e lōʻihi aiʻoe me kēia kanaka.
I ka wā e loaʻa ai kēia manaʻo ma ka moeʻuhane mai kekahi kaikamahine i honi aku i kāna mea aloha, a laila,ʻo ka ho'ākākaʻana o nā moeʻuhane e'ōlelo ana e pono anaʻo ia eʻoi aku ka ikaika ma ka pilina aʻo kāna uku e ukuʻia.
Me wai lākou i honi ai?
He mea nui loa ka mea nāna i honi iāʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane. ʻO kēia ke kanaka e hiki ke kōkua i ka wehewehe nuiʻana i nā hanana o ka wā e hiki mai ana.
- Inā e honi kekahi hoaaloha iāʻoe ma ka pāpālina, a laila ua nui loa nā mea i'ōleloʻoleʻia ma waena oʻoe, aʻo kēia mau mea e pale ai iāʻoe mai ke kamaʻilio maʻalahi. Aia kekahi ma keʻano'ē aʻe,ʻo ka liʻiliʻi maikaʻi loa o ka moe. Wahi a ia, ua kali ka mea moeʻuhane i ka kaawaleʻana mai kona hoa mai, a no ka hakakā nui.
- ʻO ke kuʻiʻana ma ka pāpālina o ke kaikamahine he mea ia e unuhi pololeiʻia mai keʻano o ke kaikamahine. Inā maikaʻiʻoleʻo ia ma waho, a laila e hoʻomākaukau ka mea moe i kahi manawa maikaʻi. Akā, e honi i ka wahine maikaʻi ma ka pāpālinaʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona maikaʻi. Hiki i ua kaikamahine nei ke lawe mai i nā pilikia a me nā hanaʻino, e hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻole i ka maikaʻi o ka mea moemoea.
- ʻO ka ho'ākākaʻana i ka moe āu e honi ai i ka hoa papa pāpālina e'ōlelo ana e kōkua ana kāu mau pilikia i nā hoaaloha kahiko.
'Ōlelo Hoʻohālikelike: e honi i ka mea i make ma ka pāpālina
ʻOiai uaʻikeʻia kēlā hihiʻo i ka mea kū'ēʻole,ʻaʻole i nā manawa maikaʻi, nā manaʻo, pono nō e maopopo i keʻano.
Inā ua kiss iāʻoe ka mea i make, ponoʻoe e mālama i kou olakino. ʻAʻohe paha i hōʻehaʻia ka maʻi, akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e nīnau i ke kauka e pale i ka uluʻana o ka maʻi a hōʻole i ka hoʻoponoponoʻana.
Ke moeʻuhaneʻoe ua honiʻoe i ka mea i make i loko o ka moeʻuhane, a ma ke ola maoli e kali anaʻoe i kahi manawa lōʻihi. ʻAʻole hiki ke kapaʻia he maikaʻi aʻaʻole paha i kūpono. E piʻi aʻe a me nā mea i mua, e hōʻoluʻolu ai i nā manaʻo.
ʻO kekahi manaʻo'ē aʻe o ka honi o ka mea i make, ua'ōleloʻo ia, hiki i kahi mea moeʻuhane ke koho i kekahi hana kolohe. Eia kekahi laʻana, hoʻololiʻoe i kāu mea i wae ai a iʻoleʻoe e kipi kolohe.
Akā, mai kahi manaʻo hoʻonaʻauao i ka hīmeniʻana ma ka moeʻuhane o ka mea i make, ua hōʻikeʻo ia ua paʻakikī ka mea moeʻuhane i ka make o kēia kanaka a ke makemake nui nei no ia.
E like me kāu eʻike ai,ʻo ka hōʻike ponoʻole o nā manaʻo i keʻano o ka honiʻana i ka papalina, hiki ke loaʻa iāʻoe he mau manaʻo nui, ināʻoe eʻike i ka wā e hoʻomaha ai ka pō. No laila, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i nāʻike a pau o ka hiamoe aʻaʻole e halaʻole i nā kiko'ī liʻiliʻi loa.