ʻO ka lā o nā mea aloha a pau,ʻaʻole naʻe he lālani Lūkia wale nō, akā ua lōʻihi ko mākou home. Ua aloha nuiʻo Valentine Day i ke aloha me nā'ōpiopio haʻahaʻa, ka mea i loaʻa ka manawa e haʻi i ko lākou manaʻo me ke kōkuaʻana o nā valentines. I kēia lā,ʻaʻohe mele i ka lā 14 o Pepeluali i ke kula,ʻaʻole hiki ke hana me ka kālekaʻole-kākau a me ka leka uila. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka waiwai waiwai o nā valentines ma nā hale kūʻai eʻae iāʻoe e koho i kahi kāleka no kēlā me kēia hoaʻai a me ke kīʻaha, akā makemakeʻoe e hoʻolauleʻa kūikawā no kāu mea i aloha ai i kēia lā.
He aha nā lālā hiki ke hanaʻia ma ka lā 14 o Pepeluali
ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻoleʻoe e kāhāhā i ka naʻau o Valentine i ka naʻau o ka pepa. Inā makemakeʻoe e hōʻeha a hahau i ke kumu o kou kaniʻuhū, ponoʻoe e hōʻike i kaʻike a me ka hoʻoikaikaʻana. ʻO ka mea mua, e noʻonoʻo i kāu mea e aloha ai, ka mea e pono ai iā ia, pehea e makemake ai e lilo i kou manawa kūpono. E hoʻohanaʻia kēia mauʻike a pau i ka hanaʻana i kahi valentine kūikawā. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā makemake kahi kaikamahine e alakaʻi, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hana i ka leka hoʻomaopopo, i kāhikoʻia me nā pele. Hiki i ke kanaka hāmeʻa ke hāʻawi i ka valentine ma keʻano he pōleʻele.
Ināʻikeʻoleʻoe i nā pono a me nā makemake o kou aloha, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i ka hōʻailona kūlohelohe e like me keʻano o ka puʻuwai a hoʻonani keʻano. No ka hoʻolālāʻana i ka hoʻokalakupua, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā mea pono a pau: nā pihi, nā liʻiliʻi, nā'ōmole, nā pepa i kāwiliʻia, nā'ōlohi, nā pīni kope, nā lole.
ʻO kahi laʻana, hiki ke hanaʻia kahi meaʻai maʻamauʻole mai ka pahu kāpau a me ke kope kope:
- E pepa i ka pepaʻulaʻula ma ka hapalua aʻokiʻoki i ka naʻau
- Me ke kōkua o ka PVA paʻi, waiho kahi kīʻaha i waenakonu o kaʻaoʻao mua o ka valentine a hoʻonani me kekahiʻano'ē aʻe.
- No ka hāʻawiʻana i nā'āpana i ka līlū nani, hoʻouhi iā lākou me kaʻiliahi kīnā.
Pehea e hōʻoia ai i ke aloha i kahi kaikamahine
Ua mākaukau kou vale, akā,ʻo ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia ke kākau i kāu kākauʻana no kou mau manaʻo. Inā loaʻa kāu taleni poetic, e ho'āʻo e hāʻawi i kahi mea aloha i nā lainaʻelua e haʻi iā ia e pili ana i kāu aloha. Hiki iāʻoe ke koho i kahi poʻomanaʻo e kahi mea kākau kaulana a haʻi paha i kou mau manaʻo ma ka'ōlelo. ʻO ka mea nuiʻaʻole ia e hopohopo e hōʻike pono i kou mau manaʻo. He mea nuiʻole ia e hoʻohui i ke alalaʻula i ka valentine - he hōʻailona o ke aloha hiwahiwa. Akā, eʻoluʻolu ana kekahi kaikamahine i ka Valentine eʻike ai i kahi mea kānalua a iʻole i kahi meaʻoluʻolu. Hiki ke hoʻololi i nā makana a pau ma ke kula me nā kānaka ukali o ke aloha a iʻole ka lima ma ke kino i ka haʻi.
Pehea e hōʻoia ai i ke aloha i kahi kanaka
ʻO nā manawa i hoʻokūʻia ai nā kaikamahine e kali no ka pae mua i nā kāne i hala. ʻO nā wāhine i kēia manawa, he mau hana, a no ka mea i hiki iā lākou iho ke hana i ka mea i alohaʻia. No laila, mai makaʻuʻoe e komo mua i ke aloha, no ka mea, hikiʻole i ke kanaka keʻaʻa e kamaʻilio i kona mau manaʻo. Ma ka lā 14 o Pepeluali, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomākaukau i kahi valenine kūikawā me nā hua'ōlelo e pili ana i ke aloha. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i maopopo heʻano like kēlā mau manaʻo,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka kākauʻana ma mua o ka "I aloha" - "makemake wau iāʻoe" aiʻole "e lilo i mau hoaaloha." ʻAʻole iʻaeʻia nā makana i ke kanaka, akā, hiki iāʻoe ke kono aku i kahi cafe a iʻole ka pumehana. E lilo i kou lā mua a hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i keʻano o kou mau manaʻo.
