Makemake ke kanaka i kahi kaikamahine uʻi,ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu - no ke aha?

Malia paha,ʻaʻohe mea e hakakā me ka'ōlelo a nā kānaka a pau eʻoluʻolu ai i ka wā e pili ai i ka manaʻo aloha pilikino. Uaʻikeʻia keʻano o ka nani o ka nani, kahi iʻike pinepineʻia i loko o nā wahine kaulana kaulana o ka honua, he "nani nani" e noho kokoke mai ana iā mākou a eʻoliʻoli nui i nā kānaka. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke lilo i kumu kūpono no nā poʻe. A pinepine, e nānā ana iā lāua e hele ana iāʻoe, manaʻo ka manaʻo i loko o ko mākou manaʻo: "Hmm, makemake kēia kanaka i kahi kaikamahine uʻi,ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu - no ke aha e hanaʻia ai ma hope o mākou?". Aʻo ia hoʻi, he kanaka maikaʻi, he kanaka'ōpio maikaʻi, a ma kahi e pili ana iā ia me ka haʻaheo e hele ana me ka haʻahaʻa, me ka manaʻoʻole, a me ke alohaʻole.

ʻOiai, i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, malia paha ua liʻiliʻi ke kaikamahine i kahi anu iki, ua poinaʻo ia e hana iā ia iho,ʻaʻole i lawa kona ikaika e holoi i kona lauoho. A iʻole pahaʻo ia wale nō i hānau ai -ʻo ia ke kumu i loaʻa ai iā ia kekahiʻano. A i ka hopena, malia he wahine nani aʻona kona waiwai - a ua aloha kāna kāne iā ia no ia mea.

Keʻike neiʻoe, heʻano hoʻopunipuni'āhiu kēia: "ʻO ke kanaka e pāʻani nei i kahi kaikamahineʻino,ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu - no ke aha? !!!" e like me keʻano o ke kanaka e hele kokoke i kēia wahine alohaʻole. Maanei i ko mākou poʻo i hoʻomaka ai i ka hoʻokūkū paʻakikī, hoʻomaka mākou e hōʻuluʻulu a hoʻohālikelike. Ke hana nei kēia i loko o ka hohonu o nā meaʻikeʻole, i kekahi manawaʻaʻole mākou e hoʻomaopopo i kahi e hoʻomaka ai mākou e loiloi i nā kānaka'ē aʻe. A laila ua hānauʻia ka hōʻailona "ke kaikamahineʻino", a ua hānau houʻia ma muli o ka huhū e loaʻa ai i kahi kanaka maikaʻi a maikaʻi.

Ua aloha au i kahi kaikamahineʻino

ʻIkeʻoe,ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i kekahi kanaka ke like me kēlā kaikamahine kēia kaikamahine -ʻo ia keʻanoʻino, akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i hakakā nā meaʻono. He aha kāu makemakeʻole e pili ana i kēia mea? Nui nā maka nui? Nui nā kāne e aloha i nā kaikamāhine nunui. ʻAʻohe o ka mea hoʻoponopono i ka maka? E nānā pono -ʻaʻole paha he maikaʻi, hiki i ka mea i makemake i ka nani o ka nani, a hiki i nā mea pale ke hoʻopio i nā kaikamāhine. Malia. Manaʻoʻoe, "ʻAʻole wau i maopopo: no ke aha i makemake aiʻo ia i kahi kaikamahine me iaʻano? Nui nā pop! ", Akā,ʻoiai, aia nō he mau meaʻike maoli i ka pop kaulana ma kēia ao. ʻAʻole i hoʻopauʻia ke kiʻi o kahi wahine. ʻAʻole pahaʻoe i loaʻa nāʻano kehā a keʻano huhū loa paha? Akā, heʻano like kēia,ʻaʻole maopopo i kahi kaikamahine puʻupuʻu: pehea lā e hiki ai i kekahi ke aloha aku i kahi kaikamahineʻeleʻele hiki ke helu i nā iwiʻaoʻao?

Akā, ke manaÿo nei au, 'aʻole ka mea nui i ka pilina. ʻOiai,ʻo ka mea mua loa e nānā ai ke kanaka i kaʻikeʻana i ka wahine i konaʻikepili waho, ka hiʻohiʻona o kona hiʻohiʻona, ke kiʻi ... Ma muli paha, i hāʻawi muaʻiaʻo ia i hoʻokahi mau miliona hana wahine e mālama ai i kāna kūpono. A laila, i koʻuʻikeʻana uaʻoi aku ka aloha ma mua o ka helehelena a me ke kiʻi, i ka manawa iʻike ai au uaʻike nō hoʻi kāna keikikāne i kēia, ua hoʻomakaʻo ia eʻae iā ia iho he pilikino a he meaʻoluʻolu nona. No ke aha iʻole,ʻoiaʻiʻo?

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea kupaianaha ia ma nā pilina a pau e ho'āʻo ai ua kanaka nei eʻike i ka honua i loko o kāna hoaaloha, e nānā i kona mauʻano kanaka, eʻike i konaʻano a me ke aloha no kāna mea e makemake ai e hoʻoponopono iā ia.

Mai hōʻino wale i ke kanaka no ka loaʻaʻole o ka meaʻai, ināʻo ia e hele hewa ana, i kou manaʻo,ʻo ke kaikamahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua hōʻoia pinepineʻia heʻaʻohe wahineʻino,ʻaʻole loa aʻaʻole loa. Makemake mākou a pau, he mea nui kekahi a mālama kekahi. A inā he mau kaikamahine maikaʻi i kēia ao, a laila, he meaʻuʻuku paha o lākou - peheaʻole ka mea e kūpono ai ke kumu kūpono e kū ana ma kēlā me kēia kihi? Ma waena o nā milioni o nā makemake kūpono o nā keiki, aia nō he mea hoʻokahi e koho iāʻoe -ʻoiaiʻoeʻoʻoe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole maikaʻi iki - pauʻole ka manawa a nalowale, wale nō ka nani o ka naʻau - ke ulu nui nei aʻoi aku i kēlā me kēia makahiki, pono e mahaloʻia. ʻO ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo pono ana i keʻano "waiwai" - he'ōmaʻomaʻo wale nō ia a noʻonoʻoʻole i ke kūkuluʻana i ka pilina pilikino, no ka mea, hiki iā lākou ke "hōʻokiʻia mai ke ala o kaʻoiaʻiʻo" me kekahi kapa lūlū hou. No laila, ināʻikeʻoe i ka hālāwaiʻana o nā wāhine iāʻoe no kahi hālāwai,ʻo ka wahine kahi āu e hikiʻole ai ke kapa aku i ka nani, akāʻo ka hapalua o ia mea e nānā aku i kāu wahine me ka aloha palenaʻole - hauʻoli. Eʻoliʻoliʻoe uaʻikeʻoe i ke aloha a pau i konaʻike maʻemaʻe, maoli,ʻikeʻole i nā palena,ʻaʻole eʻae i nā makaleka, aloha!

ʻOiai, heʻano likeʻole nāʻano. I ke au o kēia ao, ua ukuʻia nā manaʻo no ka hoʻonuiʻana i ka nānā aku ma mua, ma keʻano he kālā. ʻAe, he mea kaumaha a haʻahaʻa, akāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo ka holo pū me mākou. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole mākou a pau loa, akā, he nui aʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea waiwai.

ʻO mākou paha, i ka wā i maʻa mau ai ka manaʻo o "wahine mālamaʻia," ma muli o ia hua'ōlelo he kaikamahine eʻimi nei i ke kanaka waiwai, hiki iāʻoe ke mare, "Papa", e makemake ana e loaʻa iā ia ka nui o ke kālā. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo -ʻo ka moekolohe likeʻole, akāʻo kekahi mau kaikamāhine he mau manaʻo ...

ʻAʻole i liʻiliʻi, i kēia mau lā, aia nō hoʻi ka mea i kapaʻia "Alphonse",ʻo ka'ōnaehana pili kaiaulu o nā kāne, ka mea hikiʻole ke hana i nā hana a kānaka, a makemake lākou e ola i ka lilo o nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻAe, ke ulu nei ka māhele o kēia mau poʻe i kēlā me kēia lā - aʻo ka hapanui o lākou he kaikamahine me ke kālā. A maanei,ʻaʻole ia he mea koʻikoʻi - pehea nāʻikepili waho o ka "mea maʻi" o Alphonse.

Eia naʻe, ua waihoʻia nā mea a pau e lanakila ai. Ma muli o ka manawa i hoʻolimalima nuiʻia ai ke kanaka-Alphonse, no ka loaʻaʻole o kāna kālā i mea nui. Hāʻawi ke kaikamahine iā ia i nā mea a pau: e wehe iā ia i kahi hale nani, kahi e hana ai heʻoho aloha. Inā paha e ola ponoʻo ia, e kūʻaiʻo ia i kaʻa nona. Ma mua ona e loaʻa kahi manawa kūpono loa e hoʻi hou ai i kahiʻoihana o ke kaiaulu, kahi i makemake nui aiʻo ia.

ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka kaikamahine - ua loaʻa iā ia he kanaka maikaʻi, hanohano, e hiki iāʻoe ke kiʻi mai i kahi moʻolelo kūʻiʻo me nā lepili a me nā inoa kūpono e pono ai iā ia e hoʻohana i ka pōʻai o kāna kamaʻilio.

No laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e wikiwiki e kāhāhā i kouʻikeʻana aku i kahi kanaka ma ke alanui e hele nei me kahi kaikamahineʻino -ʻaʻole pahaʻoe iʻike nui e pili ana i ko lākou ola pilikino ...