ʻAʻole wau makemake e mare, pehea e pale ai i ka hopena o kaʻohana?

E hoʻoholo ana kēlā me kēia kanaka i konaʻano e ola ai. Aia kekahi ma kahiʻoihana, hele ke kanaka i kaʻohana, a hele kekahi i kona ola a pau, e kapa iā ia iho he mea hoʻokani pila aʻoleʻole. Ma kekahiʻano,ʻo nāʻano a mākou e koho ai,ʻo ka mea nuiʻo kā mākou hana e lawe mai iā mākou i ka hauʻoli. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole hiki i nā poʻe a pau e hoʻopuni nei iā mākou ke maopopo i kēia aʻikeʻia. ʻO ka mea pili i kaʻohana. Mālama nā mākua o kēlā me kēia kaikamahine i kā lākou kaikamahine e mare, a hānau i nā moʻopuna a lākou a noho ma hope o kaʻaoʻao o kāna kāne. Akāʻo ka hopu,ʻaʻole kēlā me kēia kaikamahine e makemake i kēia kūlana. A eia mai ka nīnau: pehea e wehewehe ai i kaʻohanaʻaʻoleʻoe makemake e mare a pale aku iāʻoe iho mai ka pilikia a me ka'ōlelo aʻo mau?


Kū'ē

ʻO ka uēʻana, ka hōʻino a me ke kāheaʻanaʻaʻole ia he koho. ʻO ka pinepine o kāu hanaʻana,ʻo ka nui o kāu e hōʻoia i kou mau mākua he kaikamahineʻoe iʻikeʻole i kekahi mea i ke ola, no laila, ke manaʻo neiʻo ia i nāʻano naʻaupō a pau. No laila, inā makemakeʻoe e haʻi aku i kekahi mea i kouʻohana, e noho iho i lalo a haʻi haʻahaʻa i ka pehea a no ke kumu i loaʻa ai kēia hopena. ʻO kēlā me kēia wahine he kumu pono kona e maleʻole ai. Ke hoʻoulu nei kekahi i ka noʻonoʻo pono'ī, makemake kekahi eʻike i konaʻano a me ko mākou ao honua, no ke kumu o ke ola e kōkua ana i nā poʻe'ē aʻe. I kēlā me kēia hihia, no ka lōʻihi o ko lākou ho'āʻoʻana, pono e hōʻike i ko lākou hoʻoikaika i nā mākua. Peheaʻoe e hoʻopaʻapaʻa ai ma kaʻano o kouʻohana. I loko o kēlā me kēiaʻohana, aia nā mea e hoʻokuʻuʻia ai e nā poʻe, a me nā meaʻikeʻole aʻaeʻole. Ponoʻoe e mālama i kahi kūkākūkā i mea e hiki ai keʻaeʻia kāu mau pane. Eia kekahi lā, ināʻaʻole makemake nui kou mau mākua i nā mea kiʻekiʻe, a ke hele neiʻoe i kahi huakaʻi e hōʻike iāʻoe i nā mea hilahila o kaʻuhane, e aho e'ōleloʻoeʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake e mare, no ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike mua i ke ao, a no ka hauʻoli ia i kēia manawa . Ma kekahi hihia, pehea kāu e'ōlelo ai, e ho'āʻo mau i ka koho i nā hana e hiki ke maʻalahi i nā mākua. E hoʻomanaʻo i kēia poʻe aloha nui iāʻoe. Hiki iā lākou keʻokoʻa i ka nānā aku i ke kūlana. Akā,ʻaʻole hiki ke'ōleloʻiaʻaʻole nā ​​mākua e hoʻopā pinepine iāʻoe me kēia nīnau, akā, hiki i kekahi ke manaʻo e lilo ka mea iʻoi aku ka nāwaliwali, aiʻole e nalowale no kekahi manawa.

ʻO Nespor'te aʻaʻole hōʻike

Ināʻikeʻoe i nā kamaʻilio maʻamau aʻaʻole hiki i ka hopena ke hoʻololi i kou mau mākua - mai hoʻopaʻapaʻa. Ke paio nei mākou, e like me ka hōʻoiaʻana i ka manaʻo o ka hoa paio i ka pono e ola. No laila, hoʻomaka ke kanaka me ka huhū a me ka huhū i kekahi mea e hōʻike ai, a huhūʻoe, huhūʻole, aʻikeʻole i kahi e hele aku ai mai kouʻohana. No laila, e waiho wale i kēlā mau kūkā. Inā piʻi kēia kumuhana ma ka lā hoʻomahaʻohana, hiki iāʻoe ke ala a hele. ʻAe, hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo a me ke kolohe i kāu mauʻohana i nā mākua a me nā mākua. Akā, ināʻaʻole lākou e makemake a makemakeʻole e ho'āʻo e hoʻomaopopo iāʻoe, no laila, pono ke uku aku iā lākou me ke kālā hoʻokahi.ʻAʻole paha he mea maikaʻi loa ke hanaʻana i kēia, akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka haʻalele i ka hakakā ma mua o ka hakakā me nā mea a pau a hiki i ka makaʻu. ʻOiaiʻaʻole maopopo nāʻohana o kēia mau mea, akā, ma nā hopena o ka hopena,ʻoʻoe ka mea hana maʻalahi. Eia hou, e like me ka hōʻikeʻana, inā makemake nā kānaka iāʻoe, a laila ma ka manawa'ē aʻe e noʻonoʻo ai lākou ma mua o ka hoʻouhalaʻana i kēlā kumuhana, no ka meaʻaʻole lākou e makemake iāʻoe e haʻalele i ke kākahi. No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonele i nā hana pāʻani a me nā pono maʻamau i nā lā hoʻomahaʻohana.

E huli i kahi pilina

He paʻakikī loa ka hakakāʻana i ka manaʻo, inā i kākoʻoʻia e ka maikaʻi loa o kāu mau mea a puni. ʻO ia ke kumu i waena o nāʻohana, ponoʻoe eʻimi i kahi mea e pili ana iāʻoe. No laila,ʻikeʻia ka mea nāna e hoʻoholo i ka pololei a kamaʻilio pū me kēia kanaka ma kahi kaʻawale. He mea makemake loa lākou he poʻe mai kahi o ka hanauna kahiko, hiki ke heluʻia ko lākou manaʻo. Ināʻikeʻoe i kahi kanaka likeʻole i waena o kouʻohana, a laila, eʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka kamaʻilio a me ka'ōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ka male ma mua o ka manawa i ho'āʻo aiʻoe e kaua wale. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo e hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kaʻohana o kou kuleana, akā e noʻonoʻo lākou i kāu mau hua'ōlelo aiʻole e ho'āʻo e komo i kāu kūlana. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka koho maikaʻi loaʻo iaʻo kou momona. Inā kākoʻo a hoʻomaopopoʻo ia,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe eʻaʻa e hana ikaika. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻoiai, akā,ʻo ka manaʻo o ka makua he mea nui loa ia, aʻo nā hoahānau kūpaʻa hoʻi,ʻaʻole lākou e hakakā me ia, akā, ināʻaʻole kēia he makuahine, e maʻalahi iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i kā lākou mau'ōlelo aʻo a me nā'ōlelo aʻo, ʻo ia ka mea e manaʻo ana i ke kākoʻo o ke tacit, ua ho'ōkiʻoleʻo ia e hana i ka manaʻo'ē aʻe a ho'āʻo e ho'āʻo i kekahi mea.

Ināʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke kaua - hele aku

Ināʻikeʻoeʻaʻole maopopo kouʻohana i nā hua'ōlelo a iʻole nā ​​manaʻo, no laila, hoʻokahi wale nō mea i koe - e haʻalele wale. E neʻe i kahi hale'ē aʻe, aiʻole ia i kekahi kūlanakauhale'ē aʻe a ho'āʻo e like me ka mea hikiʻole ke haʻalele i kaʻohana no ka launaʻana. I ka mua, e huhū loa lākou, akā, e hoʻomaka ana ke au hou iā lākou. A ināʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomaopopo, a laila e nīnau lākou iāʻoe i keʻano o ka hewa. Hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo malū iā lākou i kaʻoiaʻiʻo me ka hūnāʻole. ʻO kaʻoi aku o ka maopopo a me ka maopopo e hōʻike anaʻoe i nā kumu o iaʻano hana,ʻo ka hoʻomaka kokeʻana o ka noʻonoʻoʻana i ka mea hikiʻole ke loaʻa i kekahi mea mai kekahi mea. Ma mua o ka manawa,ʻo kekahi mauʻohana o kouʻohana e aʻoʻole e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo i kahi e nīnauʻoleʻia ai a mālamaʻia kekahi manaʻo e pili ana i ka male.

ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ma nāʻano'ē aʻe, he paʻakikī ke hakakā ma ke kāʻiliʻana mai ko lākouʻohana. Nui lākou i ke aloha iā mākou, akā, ua hoʻokahuliʻia ko lākou mau manaʻo e nā hana maʻamau a me nā hana i kauʻia e ka lāhui. ʻAʻole lākou iʻae iā lākou iho eʻae i hiki i ke kanaka ke loaʻa i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo likeʻole. Mai hōʻeha nui i ko lākou poʻe aloha. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua halaʻole lākou i ka hanaʻia. ʻO kēia ke kumu i loko o lākou i loko o ka genotype, no ka mea ua hoʻokaumaha wale nā ​​wāhine a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka makemake e lilo i wahine a me makuahine wale nō, akā,ʻo ka hanauna hou, i loaʻa i kaʻikeʻana i nā mea a pau, hiki iā ia ke hōʻemi i nā mea a pau a me ka kohoʻana me ka nānāʻole i ke kaiaulu. No laila, mai makaʻuʻoe e hana e like me kou makemake, a laila, e kipaku kokeʻia aku paha kāuʻohana ma'ō a iʻole, a iʻole paha,ʻaʻole lākou e kau i ko lākou manaʻo iāʻoe.